Zendaya dazzled at the 2025 Golden Globes, but her boyfriend, Tom Holland, was noticeably absent, leaving fans to wonder about the reasons behind his decision to skip the event. The 28-year-old actress was nominated for Best Performance by a Female Actor in a Motion Picture (Musical or Comedy) for her role in Challengers, where she stole the spotlight with her stunning burnt orange strapless gown.
The Golden Globes took place at the Beverly Hilton, presenting one of the biggest nights for Hollywood. While many of her fans celebrated Zendaya's success and her potential for award recognition, Tom Holland, also 28, was nowhere to be seen. This exclusion is not particularly surprising as Holland has opened up before about why he tends not to join Zendaya at high-profile events. "It's not my moment, it's her moment, and if we go together, it’s about us,” he shared with Men’s Health.
This isn’t the first time Holland has skipped such events. The couple last walked the red carpet together back in December 2021 for the premiere of their shared film, Spider-Man: No Way Home. Since then, they have decided to maintain their relationship with higher levels of privacy—not shying away from public interactions but thoughtfully managing which moments to share with the world.
During the 2025 Golden Globes, Zendaya shone brightly, even garnering attention for the significant ring on her finger, stoking speculation about her relationship status with Holland. While she radiated glamour, Holland was spotted not engaging with the cameras, simply supporting her from the sidelines as she focused on her craft.
Discussing the pressures of fame, Zendaya has previously mentioned, "Parts of my life, I accept, are going to be public...I can’t not be a person and live my life and love the person I love. But also, I do have control over what I choose to share.” The actress emphasizes the importance of establishing boundaries to protect their personal life.
On the other hand, Holland candidly reflected on the challenges of fame during his 2021 interview with GQ. He stated, "One of the downsides of our fame is...a moment you think is between two people has become public.” With the blend of ardent public interest and his desire for privacy, Holland carefully decides when to be seen alongside Zendaya.
The couple's approach to their relationship mirrors their desire for normalcy amid their Hollywood fame. Zendaya voiced her struggles with the attention and scrutiny: "I feel like, often, I am not cut out for [the fame] part of [my work].” Through candid conversations, she echoed sentiments around protecting their space against celebrity pressures.
Despite the buzz surrounding Zendaya's nomination and glamorous appearance, the night marked another example of Tom Holland prioritizing Zendaya's career over his public presence. With the couple choosing to navigate their fame together, expectations around their appearances together continue to shift.
One reason Holland remains absent may also stem from potentially shifting priorities. Previously, he expressed aspirations for fatherhood and stepping back from acting when he starts his own family, stating, "When I have kids, you will not see me in movies anymore. [My life will be] golf and dad.” Such remarks hint at how both stars might prioritize their personal lives over frequent public appearances.
The acceptance of boundaries appears to play a significant role, not merely for the couple's personal enjoyment but also for their careers. Maintaining this balance frees them from the burden of constant scrutiny and paves the way for authenticity, perhaps making each public moment even more special.
With the Golden Globes spotlight shining primarily on Zendaya, Tom Holland's absence continues to reveal the couple's unique way of managing their relationship within the Hollywood limelight. They appear united over their choices as much as over their love for each other, blending both privacy and public life as they navigate their professional endeavors.