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18 August 2024

Women Overcoming Obstacles To Pursue Dreams

From driving to flying, inspiring stories highlight resilience and determination against challenges

A Canadian woman born without arms and with shortened legs achieved her dream of driving after overcoming numerous obstacles and significant financial challenges.

Talli Osborne, 44, obtained her driver’s license after a seven-year effort, which was complicated by the COVID-19 pandemic, notable expenses for modifications, and extensive planning.

She got her license in Las Vegas, finally gaining independence after investing nearly $100,000 to modify her dream car, a fuchsia Mini Cooper, to suit her needs.

"If you truly want to achieve something, you can do it no matter what the hurdle," Osborne proclaimed, expressing pride for her long-awaited accomplishment.

This determination was put to the test when she received the quote for her car modifications and nearly had to give up on her dream of driving.

Osborne recalled, “I almost barfed” upon hearing the price, which made her second-guess her plans.

She initially bought the car pre-modifications, but the pandemic prevented her from making the necessary adjustments due to lack of funds.

Desperate not to give up, Osborne resisted her mother’s suggestion to sell the car, insisting, “If I sell this car, that's me literally giving up on this dream.”

Eventually, she was contacted by the War Amps' Child Amputee Program, which offered financial help for her vehicle modifications.

"I almost cried" when she learned she would receive assistance, marking the beginning of her driving independence.

The modifications included the installation of extended gas and brake pedals, and steering controls mounted on the left side, essentials for her to drive comfortably.

After the completion of her modified car, another hurdle lay before her: obtaining her driver’s license which required the completion of specific forms and verification from healthcare professionals.

Osborne described the experience of needing to prove her competency to drive due to her conditions as degrading, stating, “I was born this way, and nothing’s changing.”

Despite the skepticism she faced, Osborne is dedicated to proving herself and enhancing her driving skills.

She documents her driving experiences on social media, where she has mostly received positive feedback, but also faces some doubters about her capabilities.

“For me to get my license, it’s a million times harder, so I’m going to be a million times of, you know, a driver,” Osborne asserted, holding onto her determination.

Now, with her license, Osborne dreams of driving to California to see friends, thrilling her younger sister Mir.

Mir expressed excitement about their family’s dream coming to fruition, saying, “I cannot stress to you enough how eager I have been for this to happen.”

Osborne sees her achievement not only as personal success but also as hope for increased independence for others with disabilities.

“This is just sort of something we’ve talked about, dreamt about, kind of tried to visualize for decades since we were young,” Mir said, paving the way for future achievements.

Osborne's story joins others like Lola Reid Allin, the first female chief flying instructor at the Waterloo-Wellington Flight Centre, who has also faced challenges pursuing her passion.

With her new book Highway to the Sky: An Aviator's Journey set to hit bookstores, Allin shares her experiences breaking barriers as a female pilot.

Allin reflects on her struggles as one of just a handful of female pilots during her training, underscoring the visibility issues women face as they enter male-dominated fields like aviation.

During her training, she frequently encountered the challenge of finding female mentors, often hearing disparaging comments about women’s roles within the industry.

Despite these obstacles, she continues to support the next generation of female aviators, taking part in programs aimed at encouraging girls to pursue aviation.

“We need more visibility, we need to be out there, we need to be role models,” Allin emphasized as she advocated for future inclusivity.

Similar sentiments echoed from Savana Smith, a 17-year-old golfer from Delaware Nation who recently competed at the Indigenous Ontario Golf Championships.

Despite her young age, Smith demonstrates incredible maturity as she recognizes the significance of representation within her sport.

Having only started golfing during the pandemic as an alternative to her halted baseball season, Smith discovered her passion through trial and error.

Placing third among top female golfers from diverse Indigenous communities, she expressed pride at competing at this level for the first time.

"It’s just really important to me, especially since we get to have it be all Indigenous players,” Smith shared, highlighting the cultural importance of the event.

She credits her family, especially her cousin Cheryl Mitchell, also competing at the championships, for serving as inspiration.

“Knowing Cheryl can do it, I can do it too,” Smith said, illustrating the impact of mentorship and familial support.

Smith hopes her success will inspire other young Indigenous athletes to pursue their passions, emphasizing, "I hope they'll see how much fun it is."

Through shared stories of determination and defiance against barriers, women like Osborne, Allin, and Smith are paving the way, proving the only limits are self-imposed and the power of perseverance can redefine possibilities.

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