Vicky Kagia, the well-known model and television presenter, recently opened up about her decision to step back from the public eye, citing personal and family challenges during her appearance on the talk show 'Mama-Das.' On December 28, Kagia engaged in a candid conversation with host Jenny Theona, shedding light on the demands of her previous work commitments and the pressures she felt from society.
"When you enter such turmoil, you suddenly forget who you are," Kagia said, reflecting on her struggles with balancing her career with family responsibilities. With two television shows and her responsibilities as a mother to two children, she felt overwhelmed. Kagia emphasized her belief, stating, "I don't like forgetting who I am. What's more important, success or your center, what you truly want to do with your life?" This internal conflict prompted her to make the decision to take time off from television.
Throughout the interview, Kagia also addressed the topic of marriage, expressing strong opinions against young couples tying the knot. "It’s best for each person to take their path with love. I firmly disagree with women marrying young and having children at ages when they don't even know who they are yet," she proclaimed. Her perspectives were shaped by her own experiences, particularly the impact of her parents’ divorce. "I believe sometimes people who marry young can't continue together forever," she noted, reflecting on her upbringing.
Delving deep, Kagia detailed her own first marriage, which she admitted she was not ready for. "I did feel the pressure to get married and have kids, but I wasn't genuinely prepared for it. There was no blame on anyone; it just wasn’t the right time for me or for him," she said, underscoring the importance of being true to oneself.
Later, she shared positive reflections on her current marriage with Ilia Krassas and the joy they found together raising their children, Bianchi and Karolos. “Ilia's intelligence and creativity inspire me. We connected through our work, and we're building our family together. It’s incredibly fulfilling," Kagia stated with warmth.
Another poignant moment came when she discussed the recent loss of her father, describing it as akin to "a removal of your very essence." Her heartfelt tribute showcased the emotional depth of her recent struggles. "You return to who you were and wonder how to continue now. This is something no one can prepare you for," she shared.
Kagia's revelations resonate with many who grapple with societal pressures surrounding marriage, family life, and career. Her commitment to prioritizing her personal identity, rather than societal expectations, provides insight for those facing similar dilemmas.
By confronting her past and highlighting its influence on her present, Vicky Kagia encourages others to embrace their truth. Her inspiring message serves as both caution and clarity for those embarking on the complicated journeys of love, career, and self-discovery.