Media personality Unathi Nkayi has announced the sad news of her father, Sakhiwo M Nkayi's passing on Tuesday, December 31, through an emotional Instagram post. Known for his impactful role as a clinical psychologist, Sakhiwo was celebrated not only for his career but also for his influential presence in Unathi’s life.
Unathi shared, "It is with deep sadness we share the news of the passing of our beloved father — Sakhiwo M Nkayi. A true treasure to us all, a great father, beloved friend, and uncle to many. He now joins his lineage at their final resting place. We appreciate your love and support during this tough time." This heartfelt announcement reflects how deeply Sakhiwo was cherished not only by his family but also by the friends and community around him.
Born to guide and support, Sakhiwo M Nkayi was well-educated, earning degrees from prestigious institutions such as the University of Wales, the University of Surrey, and the Medical University of South Africa (MEDUNSA). He practiced as a clinical psychologist, contributing positively to countless lives through his profession.
Throughout her career, Unathi has often praised her father publicly, showing gratitude for his guidance and the values he instilled. Reflecting on her relationship with Sakhiwo, she previously described him as her "spiritual twin," stating, "This guy is my Spiritual Twin, like my son… we’re November babies. All three of us." This description underlines the strong bond they shared, not only as family but as kindred spirits.
During his life, Sakhiwo's role was pivotal for Unathi, who credited him with shaping her strong identity. She noted, "When you get annoyed with my feistiness, know it is because of my fellow Scorpio who raised me to be like this." This statement encapsulates both her affection and the lasting influence her father had on her character.
After the announcement of his death, friends and colleagues extended their condolences to Unathi. Khabonina Qubeka expressed her support, saying, "Condolences my sisi, to you and your family. I love you." Similarly, actress Renate Stuurman wrote, "Unathi I’m so sorry, this is heartbreaking, sending you all my love." Such messages from the entertainment community highlight the widespread impact Sakhiwo had as both a father and friend to many.
Unathi frequently celebrated her father's teachings and character on various occasions. Just last year, she posted about the significance of their family traditions, emphasizing their cultural values during her son's return from initiation school, where she remarked about the dignity afforded to families by their traditions.
The outpouring of love and support from friends highlights not only the esteem held for Unathi but also for her father. Actor Thapelo Mokoena commented on her post with, "Condolences to you and the Family Unathi," reaffirming the collective sorrow felt among those who knew Sakhiwo.
Through her grief, Unathi remains dedicated to honoring her father's legacy, which is reflected not just through her words but the way she chooses to live her life, embodying the values he instilled. Despite the pain and loss, the enduring connection shared between father and daughter continues to resonate within the hearts of those who knew them.
While Sakhiwo’s absence leaves a notable void, the legacy of love, guidance, and support he imparted will undoubtedly live on through Unathi and the impact he had on countless others throughout his life. Unathi Nkayi's tribute to her father serves as both a farewell and celebration of his life and enduring influence.