The rise of social media has ushered in unique online trends, such as the recent craze of individuals engaging with their younger selves through reflective notes. This viral phenomenon has captured the public's imagination, allowing people to explore their past and offer advice shaped by hindsight.
One example of this trend is Roseanna Ruane, who took time during the mid-term break to connect with her younger self. Ruane notes her younger self's concerns about friendships and aspirations for family. "She tells me she doesn’t get to see her friends," Ruane shares. Reflecting on her own life, she encourages her younger self with thoughts about real friendships and love, bolstering her hope for the future.
Ruane’s narrative is also poignant due to her personal experiences. She recalls the struggles and eventual triumphs, including coping with the loss of her daughter Saoírse to cancer at the tender age of 12. "I watch her leave and released the tears, she knew nothing of the pain she’d face..." she reveals, expressing both sorrow and the light of hope.
Aside from such heartfelt interactions with their past, TikTok is home to numerous engaging trends, one of which has been tagged as the "Republican makeup" trend. Initiated by TikTok creator Suzanne Lambert, this trend satirizes what creators perceive to be the typical makeup of conservative women, showcasing thick eyeliner, overly vibrant blush, and even clothed wigs. Critics argue this is less about political affiliation and more about highlighting societal gender norms related to beauty.
This trend has elicited mixed reactions, especially with the backdrop of the right-leaning political movement. Social media algorithms have amplified this reaction, leading to more instances of political satire and misrepresentation. This escalation reflects and deepens political divides, pulling users of TikTok and beyond to engage with each other’s viewpoints—or lack thereof.
One possible explanation for the appeal of such approaches is the societal expectations on women’s appearance. For many, the makeup choices resonate strongly with socio-cultural backgrounds. From religious influences to online beauty standards, many navigate the precarious terrain of self-presentation. Gigi Engle, a certified sex educator, elaborates on the phenomenon of "kittenfishing," considered to be milder than catfishing. "Kittenfishing is considered a form of 'less intense' catfishing wherein you change certain details or hide certain things about your life/and appearance..." she explains.
Kittenfishing can involve various forms of deception, from using outdated photos to embellishing details about lifestyle. Unlike catfishing, which come with deceitful or even malicious intents, this behavior stems more from personal insecurities, as those who kittenfish seek to craft a more appealing version of themselves for potential relationships. Gabrielle Kassel, another expert, comments, "We're all just trying to do our best and many of the flaws..." showcasing the relatable nature of this social behavior.
Kassel encourages users to interrogate their own beliefs about dating and self-presentation. Users are prompted to look at their profiles and question whether they are presenting themselves authentically or merely trying to fit societal beauty standards. The pressure can often lead individuals to curate their profiles without adequate self-reflection.
Through Ruane’s reflective notes, alongside TikTok trends, it’s clear the modern online environment is rife with influence; both personal and societal pressures play pivotal roles. With trends like the "Republican makeup" and insights like kittenfishing, we begin to see how significantly online platforms shape our self-perception and interpersonal expectations.
While some trends prompt humor and reflection, they also highlight insecurities and the struggle for authenticity, showcasing the unending quest for acceptance. Being genuine seems to be the most encouraged outcome, reminding individuals to embrace their identity through the digital glare of social media.
By prompting discussions around self-image, identity, and authenticity, these trends help steer us toward greater introspection. It brings to light the importance of genuine interactions—even the explorations with one’s younger self—cherishing hopes, dreams, and even acknowledging past hurts. After all, many are engaged with their digital selves, yet what matters most is learning to love the real you.