Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce have once again opted to stay out of the spotlight, skipping the highly anticipated 2025 Met Gala. This marks the ninth consecutive year that Swift has not attended the event, and it continues a trend of the couple keeping a low profile since their public appearances at the Super Bowl earlier this year.
Despite being invited to the Met Gala, held on May 5, 2025, in New York City, sources close to the couple revealed that scheduling conflicts prevented them from attending. Swift, who last graced the Met Gala red carpet in 2016 as a co-chair, has been focusing on her personal life and relationship with Kelce.
Fans have been eagerly awaiting the moment when Swift and Kelce would make their red carpet debut, especially given the buzz surrounding their relationship. However, insiders have indicated that the couple has chosen to prioritize their time together away from the public eye. According to a source who spoke to People, “They have been traveling nonstop and very much enjoy it. They are making the most of their time off together. They are hanging out with friends too. It’s a special time for them.”
The couple’s decision to skip the Met Gala is not surprising, given their recent emphasis on privacy. A source told Us Weekly in April that Swift and Kelce had decided to be a little more private, noting, “They’ve learned that so much attention on their relationship is not the best thing.” This sentiment seems to resonate with both stars, as Kelce himself has expressed a desire to take a breather from the public eye after feeling overwhelmed by the attention his relationship with Swift has garnered.
Swift, who has been laying low since her Eras World Tour, last appeared publicly at the Super Bowl, where Kelce’s Kansas City Chiefs faced off against the Philadelphia Eagles. The couple has not been seen together since March 14, 2025, when they enjoyed a meal at Del Frisco's Grille in New York City. Kelce has never attended the Met Gala, and Swift’s absence this year continues her streak of not attending the event since 2016.
At the 2016 Met Gala, Swift made headlines by co-hosting the event and wearing a stunning metallic silver minidress from Louis Vuitton. This year, the theme of the gala was inspired by the museum’s exhibition “Superfine: Tailoring Black Style,” and while many stars graced the red carpet, Swift and Kelce were notably missing.
Fans had hoped to catch a glimpse of the couple together, especially since Swift has previously spoken about the joys of supporting Kelce in his career. She remarked, “When you say a relationship is public, that means I’m going to see him do what he loves, we’re showing up for each other, other people are there and we don’t care.” However, it seems that for now, both stars are content to enjoy their relationship out of the public eye.
As the Met Gala continues to attract attention from fans and media alike, Swift and Kelce’s absence serves as a reminder that even the most famous couples need time to themselves. The decision to skip such a high-profile event underscores their commitment to nurturing their relationship in a more intimate setting.
While the Met Gala is a highlight of the fashion calendar, it’s clear that Swift and Kelce are prioritizing their personal lives over public appearances. As they continue to enjoy their time off together, fans can only hope that their next public outing will include a red carpet debut that many have been eagerly anticipating.
As they navigate their busy schedules and the pressures of fame, it seems that for Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce, the focus remains on their relationship, away from the flashing cameras and the bright lights of events like the Met Gala. Their commitment to privacy may leave fans longing for more public displays of affection, but it also highlights a mature approach to managing their relationship amidst the whirlwind of celebrity culture.
In a world where public figures often feel the need to constantly engage with their fans and share every aspect of their lives, Swift and Kelce's choice to step back is both refreshing and relatable. It’s a testament to their dedication to each other and their understanding of the importance of personal time.
As the year progresses, fans will undoubtedly be watching closely for any signs of a public appearance from the couple. Whether they choose to attend future events together or continue to prioritize their private time, one thing is certain: the bond between Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce remains strong, even if it’s not always visible to the public eye.
For now, the couple is enjoying their time together, and while the Met Gala may have been a missed opportunity for a red carpet debut, it’s clear that their relationship is thriving behind the scenes.
