Taiwanese entertainer Xu Xiyuan, widely known as Da S, has tragically passed away at the age of 48 from complications related to influenza and pneumonia. Her unexpected death has sent shockwaves across the entertainment industry and among her fans, leaving many mourning the vibrant and talented star.
According to reports from TVBS, Da S fell ill during the Lunar New Year holiday, where she was vacationing with her family in Japan. Her death was confirmed shortly thereafter, leading to widespread messages of grief and condolences from her friends and colleagues.
One of her closest friends, Lin Zhiling, expressed her heartbreak through her agency, stating, “Da S’s passing is shocking and heartbreaking. Her unique charm and talent accompanied us through countless moments. Her performances on screen and her sincere life attitude deeply impressed us all. May she rest peacefully and may her family find strength during this difficult time.” This sentiment has been echoed by many of Da S’s fans on social media platforms, including Lin's poignant post, which simply read, “It hurts so much...”
Cai Kangyong, another dear friend of Da S, was visibly affected during his appearance at the Taipei International Book Exhibition. While speaking about his experiences, he shared his memories through the lens of literature, reading from Yoshimoto Banana’s works. With immense sadness, he spoke about dealing with loss and articulated, “When we miss someone to the point of madness, it is not something to be ashamed of.” Cai struggled to continue reading, overcome with emotion, bringing many attendees to tears.
During his reading, he recalled Banana’s story about longing for someone lost, highlighting the emotional struggle inherent to such experiences. “The story describes how one can find solace during significant loss and the methods one might explore to reconnect with those we've lost,” he recounted, barely able to continue as he fought back tears.
Friends and fans have been saddened to see Cai Kangyong, typically so composed, break down before the crowd—a clear indication of how deeply Da S's loss has impacted those who knew her. He continued, “This prose brings comfort—it assures us there could be magical moments even within our monotonous daily lives.” His reflections served as both tribute and recognition of the pain stemming from the loss of someone so beloved.
Many around the island expressed their shock and sorrow over Da S's untimely passing. Her former husband, Wang Xiaofei, emotionally returned to Taiwan from Thailand, visibly grief-stricken and seeking to honor her memory. A witness described him as inconsolable, stating he even requested the media to celebrate Da S's life rather than speak ill of her. This moment of vulnerability, contrasting his usual demeanor, highlighted just how much Da S's death affected her family and friends.
Meanwhile, fellow actor Chen Bolin also spoke publicly about the need for respect and space for Da S's family during this time. He commended them for their warmth and implied the challenges they face as they navigate their grief publicly.
Indeed, the outpouring of affection and respect for Da S has been admirable. Her talent transcended screens and touched hearts, making her passing all the more painful for those who appreciated her work and personality. The emotional tributes highlight her significant impact on Taiwanese entertainment, where she is remembered not just for her roles, but for her genuine spirit and kindness.
Cai Kangyong, reflecting on his thoughts of Da S, stated, “I want to envision you living well. I’ll continue imagining this until I can no longer do so.” Such heartfelt messages have not only encapsulated the grief felt across the entertainment community but have also provided many fans with relatable reflections on loss.
Da S’s passing serves as a sobering reminder of life’s fragility, stirring poignant memories among her fans and loved ones. Her legacy, monumental as it may be, is now coupled with sorrow, igniting conversations about grief, remembrance, and the impact of treasured relationships.