Stephen Fry, 67, has recently opened up about his long-term marriage to Elliott Spencer, 36, shedding light on why the couple has not been photographed together in public for six years. During an appearance on the much-anticipated episode of The Jonathan Ross Show, airing Saturday, March 22, 2025, Fry candidly explains their preference for privacy and the joys of a quiet life away from the Hollywood spotlight.
The beloved broadcaster revealed that he and Elliott, who tied the knot in January 2015, often enjoy a simple evening routine instead of attending glamorous parties. He shares, "My husband and I, we don't go to Hollywood parties much, we have an early supper, watch Jeopardy! go to bed." This routine reflects their dedication to keeping their relationship intimate, allowing them to savor each other’s company without the pressures of public attention.
Although their sightings have been few, Fry expressed that this low-profile lifestyle suits them well. Their last public appearance was noted six years ago, and Fry acknowledged, "We don’t go out to Hollywood parties much," alluding to the lack of significant public engagements since their wedded life began.
Interestingly, Fry’s road to hosting the UK version of the acclaimed quiz show Jeopardy! stemmed from a conversation he had with his American agent. He recounted, "I had dinner with my American agent, he said, 'What do you do when you're not called on set?' and I said, 'My husband and I, we don't go to Hollywood parties much, we have an early supper, watch Jeopardy! go to bed.'" After stating that they don’t have the show in the UK, Fry was surprisingly offered the role two weeks later. This quirky anecdote showcases not only his knack for hosting but also how his personal life intertwines with his professional journey.
In January 2025, Fry took to Instagram to commemorate their tenth wedding anniversary with a heartfelt post, sharing a black-and-white photo from their wedding day with the caption, "Ten happy years to the day since we were joined in marriage. I’m a lucky man." It reflects the affection and gratitude he feels toward Elliott, solidifying their bond despite the public’s limited view into their relationship.
Fry also opened up about the concept of aging and longevity in a recent podcast appearance on Brave New World. He expressed that he does not wish to live beyond the age of 100, explaining, "Personally, I'm not particularly interested in longevity for myself. I'm interested, as I think most people are, in the idea of an old age that is as pain-free as possible and where there isn't too much cognitive loss..." He continued, "If everybody – my family and friends – lived into their 120s, then maybe I’d be quite happy to pass 100. But as it is, I would hate to be that lonely Flying Dutchman figure so beloved of history..." Fry’s perspective on mortality may stem partly from his personal experiences, revealing profound reflections that many can resonate with.
He also touched on his recent knighthood, awarded during the New Year Honours 2025, a significant acknowledgment of his contributions to mental health awareness, environmental initiatives, and charity work. He expressed feeling “startled and enchanted” by the recognition, which emphasizes his status as a national treasure in Britain.
Despite the couple’s low profile, it is clear that Fry and Spencer are enjoying a strong and fulfilling relationship. Their shared moments, whether at home or during rare public appearances, reveal a partnership built on mutual respect and love. Fry’s dedication to keeping some aspects of his life private while celebrating ten years of marriage reflects a thoughtful balance between public persona and personal life.
As Stephen Fry continues his journey as a television presenter and now quizmaster, his heartfelt reflections provide an insight into the life of a cherished public figure who chooses to prioritize his relationship with Elliott. Fry is not only cultivating his professional identity but also cherishing the personal connections that matter most.
This upcoming episode of The Jonathan Ross Show is expected to share more of Fry's insights, as fans remain intrigued by the man behind the iconic smile whether discussing his accomplished career or his cherished marriage. The blending of personal anecdotes with career milestones paints a vivid portrait of a beloved national figure who remains relatable amid his fame.
