Sophie Ousri, a prominent influencer and YouTuber, recently opened up about her tumultuous breakup with her partner, Jordy Datema, revealing shocking details that have resonated with many of her followers. On March 26, 2025, she took to Instagram to share her side of the story, sparked by a flood of messages from other women who had similar experiences with Jordy.
In her heartfelt posts, Sophie expressed that she felt compelled to speak out not to create drama, but to emphasize the importance of recognition and awareness. "I feel I have to acknowledge my side of the story. Not to feed drama, but because I believe that recognition and awareness are important," she stated. Her intuition had been warning her during the relationship that something was amiss, leading her to doubt her own sanity. "You start to doubt yourself. I thought I was crazy," she wrote.
The relationship, which lasted officially for only a month, followed a seven-month acquaintance between Sophie and Jordy. However, it quickly unraveled as Sophie discovered that Jordy had been unfaithful, engaging in multiple affairs while they were together. "I've never experienced anything so idiotic," she remarked, labeling him a "sociopath" and a "narcissist." Sophie expressed deep regret for allowing him into her life, especially around her daughter, Elodie, who had grown fond of Jordy.
After the breakup, Sophie revealed that she received numerous messages from other women who had also been involved with Jordy. "I am ashamed that I let this person into my life, especially that I allowed him around my daughter," Sophie admitted. To ensure her safety and that of her daughter, she had the locks of her house changed by her neighbor, firmly stating, "So if you see this: you can stick my key where the sun doesn’t shine." This bold statement underscored her determination to keep Jordy out of her life for good.
Despite the emotional turmoil, Sophie made it clear that her comments were not directed at Jeroen, the father of her daughter. She emphasized, "I tolerate no slander about the father of my daughter. He is not the ex I am talking about." Sophie and Jeroen separated in June 2024 but have maintained a good relationship, co-parenting their daughter effectively. Jeroen has even shown support during this difficult time, driving for over an hour to be with Sophie when she needed it.
In her Instagram stories, Sophie shared screenshots of messages from girls who had also been misled by Jordy, highlighting the collective experiences of betrayal. "What hurts me most is not just how I was treated, but how many other women have shared similar experiences," she reflected. She acknowledged the support she received from her followers, thanking them for confirming that they are not crazy for feeling that something was wrong. "A warned person counts for two, and I hope this whole situation helps us protect each other more quickly in the future," she added.
As she navigates this challenging chapter, Sophie has decided to take a break from dating, stating, "I don’t want any new love in my life for the time being. I want no man near me again." This decision reflects her desire to focus on healing and ensuring her daughter’s well-being after a tumultuous year, which included a serious incident where Elodie was hospitalized with second-degree burns after an accident involving hot tea.
Despite the challenges, Sophie remains resolute in her commitment to herself and her daughter. She continues to share her journey with her followers, hoping to inspire others who may be facing similar situations. The outpouring of support from her community has been a source of strength for her as she moves forward.
In a world where social media often amplifies personal struggles, Sophie Ousri’s story serves as a reminder of the importance of self-awareness, the strength found in community support, and the courage it takes to speak out against betrayal. As she embarks on this new chapter, it’s clear that Sophie is determined to reclaim her narrative and protect her family.
