Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco have captured the hearts of fans everywhere with their love story, which is now beautifully chronicled in their new joint album, I Said I Love You First. Released on March 21, 2025, the album not only showcases their musical chemistry but also offers a glimpse into their personal journey together.
The couple began dating in July 2023, and their relationship quickly bloss into something serious. Blanco proposed to Gomez in December 2024, marking a significant milestone in their romance. The two have been open about their love and the lessons they have learned from each other, sharing insights during various interviews and appearances.
In a recent episode of the podcast On Purpose With Jay Shetty, Gomez reflected on her past relationships, revealing that she had been single for five years before meeting Blanco. "I think that’s why I was alone for five years because I really needed to collect myself," she explained, emphasizing the importance of self-reflection in her personal growth.
Gomez admitted that she was often reactive in previous relationships, which contributed to her decision to take a break from dating. "I’ve made mistakes and I just want this to be right. So for me, that was a lesson that I had to learn," she shared. Despite her past, she expressed no regrets, stating, "Nothing in my life I regret, and I’m so, so happy for my journey." This emotional maturity has allowed her to build a healthy relationship with Blanco, who she describes as someone who makes her feel safe.
Blanco, a successful music producer, also opened up about his journey before meeting Gomez. He revealed that he had struggled in the Los Angeles dating scene and sought help from a therapist. During this process, he created a list of qualities he desired in a partner. The first item on his list? She had to be age-appropriate—"Thirty-plus," he specified. The second was kindness, compassion, and caring, which he humorously noted was "really three-in-one, but I need someone who is nice. A genuine nice person." Gomez, who checks all these boxes, has proven to be the partner he envisioned.
The couple’s history goes back several years, with Blanco appearing in Gomez's music video in 2019 and producing songs on her Revival album. However, their romantic connection didn’t ignite until later. Their friendship laid a strong foundation, allowing them to understand and appreciate one another deeply.
Gomez has been vocal about how her relationship with Blanco differs from her past experiences. She described him as her "best friend," and noted how his patience has helped her navigate challenges. "When Benny looks at me, I don’t think he sees anything but who I am, and that’s very rare to find," she said, highlighting the sense of security he provides.
As they promote their new album, Gomez and Blanco continue to share their love story with fans. On social media, they express their affection openly, with Gomez sharing posts that celebrate their bond. "I’m not sure what I did to deserve you but damn am I glad you were born," she wrote about Blanco. This mutual admiration has not gone unnoticed, as fans and followers have dubbed Blanco the "best hype man ever" for his enthusiastic support of Gomez.
In addition to their romantic connection, the album I Said I Love You First serves as a testament to their creative collaboration. Gomez described Blanco as her "personal journal" in the process of making the album, stating, "These songs represent our past, present, and future… something I can’t wait to experience with you from now until forever."
As the couple navigates their engagement, they have made it clear that they are in no rush to tie the knot. Gomez mentioned during an appearance on the Today show that they are enjoying their time together and are not focused on wedding plans just yet. "To be honest, I’m just enjoying us in this moment, and yeah, then we’ll get to start the craziness," she said, indicating that their relationship is still in a sweet, exploratory phase.
Their journey together is a reminder that love, timing, and personal growth play crucial roles in building a lasting relationship. As they continue to support each other both personally and professionally, Gomez and Blanco's love story serves as an inspiration to many. With their album out and their engagement announced, fans are excited to see what the future holds for this dynamic duo.
In a world where celebrity relationships often seem fleeting, Gomez and Blanco's bond stands out for its authenticity and depth. They have both learned from their pasts, embraced their individuality, and found a partner who complements them perfectly. As they embark on this new chapter together, it’s clear that they are committed to making their love story one for the ages.