On the reality dating show "Love Is Blind" Season 8, viewers were left stunned when Sara Carton rejected Ben Mezzenga at the altar. While many fans assumed the decision came as a shock, Sara revealed during recent interviews with media outlets, including People and US Weekly, the intricacies surrounding her choice.
During her interview with People on March 8, 2025, Sara made it clear Ben was not blindsided by her refusal. The couple had openly discussed their respective stances before the wedding ceremony. She recounted Ben's bewildering reaction at the altar when he suggested they continue to work on their relationship, implying they could return to the dating phase post-engagement. Sara described this moment as disrespectful, feeling it was inappropriate to propose such ideas at such a significant moment.
"We were on the same page, and he knew coming in what I was going to say," said Sara, reflecting on their earlier discussions. She emphasized, "I was hit with the reality of how absolutely out of touch he is." This statement underscored her disappointment at Ben's insensitivity to the gravity of the situation.
Another key factor influencing Sara’s decision to reject Ben was the emergence of allegations against him on social media. With just five days to go before the wedding, she was sent TikTok videos from friends alleging Ben's mistreatment of women. Initially, Sara thought they could overlook these claims, but as the days progressed, they weighed heavily on her mind. Her family's concerns about whether Ben was truly "a safe person" for her reinforced her doubts.
Sara disclosed on March 7, 2025, during her conversation with US Weekly, "I received the TikTok about Ben compelling me to question his character, and then shortly after, I got sent the picture of his YouTube card with reports of how he interacted with other women." Her friend sent her this picture just days before the ceremony — adding to her growing trepidation.
Within the confines of the pods, Sara and Ben showcased their bond, but as the show progressed, significant differences came to light—especially surrounding political and social issues. After her dramatic rejection, Sara expressed her disappointment with Ben's lack of awareness about topics important to her. "I asked him about Black Lives Matter, and it was clear he hadn’t thought much about these issues," she told her family after the ceremony. She noted, "How could you not think about something like this, especially considering events like the murder of George Floyd?"
After the wedding ceremony, Sara and Ben initially attempted to navigate their connection by living together for two weeks before she returned to her job as a travel nurse. But it wasn't long before trouble reemerged. Upon arriving in Nashville, she was stunned to find Ben had removed her from Find My Friends, leaving her feeling "duped." Her confusion was compounded by receiving three scripted apologies from him shortly afterward.
Ben's claim at their eventual reunion was particularly contentious. He stated he believed they had already broken up when Sara left for Nashville. Yet Sara retorted, citing the misleading nature of Ben's communication, which culminated when he attempted to practice reunion questions together after reaching out following their disconnect. "I had clarity about who Ben was, and when I looked back on our time, it all started to align. Unfortunately, I had to be the one to get burned personally to understand," she responded to Glamour, summing up the situation.
During the reunion episode aired on March 9, 2025, both stars revisited the crux of their relationship issues—political values and personal beliefs. Sara articulated her frustrations about feeling as if she was investing more effort than she was receiving and reiterated elements of their differing backgrounds, especially as it pertained to social issues.
Sara shared, "Despite not being on the same page, we initially thought our values aligned well enough to move forward, but now I can see that's not true." Fans and interviewers alike latched onto her commentary, eager for details on their breakup and the subsequent fallout.
Overall, Sara conveyed her regret fueled by ignorance and trust placed on Ben, leading to what she labeled as "surface-level" feelings and doubts about their suitability as partners. "The relationship felt carefree, but I often questioned whether he was my true match or if we were simply having fun together without depth," she concluded.
Now single, Sara Carton expressed hope for the future, seeking someone who resonates with her values and lifestyle. "I'm just really searching for my best friend, someone loyal and integral to their beliefs," she stated. "At the end of the day, I want equality and respect for all—it’s what we all deserve."
Fans of the reality show and followers of both Sara and Ben await the reunion episode, eager to learn more about the diverging paths taken and the lessons they've gleaned since their dramatic experiences on love and their ensuing revelations.