Love is often portrayed as both beautiful and unpredictable, and for singer-songwriter Ruthie Collins, it proved to be just as thrilling as she’d always imagined. This past year, Collins took the leap from romance to marriage to motherhood, all at lightning speed, transforming her life story's narrative.
At 40, Ruthie Collins found herself reflecting on her life, stating, "I have always believed life was supposed to be a beautiful romantic adventure and nothing else." And for Collins, this belief came to fruition when she not only fell deeply in love but got married and became a mother, all within two whirlwind years. Yet, as she shares with People, it was anything but ordinary. "It all happened very fast," she admitted.
The roots of this romantic adventure trace back to early 2022. At the time, Collins, who was already dealing with heartbreak from a recent breakup, set off for a tour across the UK with Americana country artist Sam Outlaw. "I actually had a really bad breakup four days before I went overseas and on tour," Collins recalled. The emotional baggage didn’t stifle her spirit; rather, it seems to have set the stage for serendipity.
On the final night of her tour, destiny entered the picture. She met Rory Mitchinson, who happened to be attending her show. With his charming mustache and captivating demeanor, Mitchinson immediately caught her attention. Collins humorously remarked, "I’m a sucker for a good mustache." Their chemistry felt instantaneous, yet she expected him to be unavailable. After all, he seemed like the type who would have someone waiting at home.
But as it turns out, Mitchinson was just the gentleman Collins had been longing for. After several drinks and hours of intimate conversation, he sent her this heartfelt text, excited about their meeting. "That was the start of it all," Collins recalled. This blossoming connection led to deep conversations through messages and voice memos, and what truly enchanted her was his beautiful British accent.
Their relationship blossomed through shared communication as Mitchinson visited the United States later, and partnerships from across the pond began. "He came over here in June of 2022," Collins shared. Soon they were traveling back and forth, enveloping each other’s worlds, creating memories both new and nostalgic.
Fast forward to September 2023, the couple reached another significant milestone: They decided to start their family sooner rather than later. For Collins, who faced the realities of age, it became clear they needed to take action. "We knew we would want a family, but I was a little older and everything, so we had already decided to start trying earlier than we probably would have if it wasn’t for my age,” she revealed.
At the heart of their beautiful fast-paced story was the birth of their daughter, Esme Winslow Mitchinson. Little Esme has since inspired Collins to explore new depths as she co-wrote her fresh single titled "Barefoot No Fences," which reflects her childhood experiences growing up and embracing the freedom of exploration alongside her sister. Notably, her daughter served as the muse, leading Collins to pour her heart and soul onto the paper.
Collins explained the essence of her latest single, sharing, "I got to grow up on this big farm where there were no fences, and my sister and I would just run out… I just want Esme to grow up feeling free to explore and push boundaries but know where home is." This recognition of her roots, coupled with her new identity as a mother, has ushered Ruthie Collins onto new heights.
Adding to the celebratory vibe, Collins tied the knot with Mitchinson just this past March. While many might be overwhelmed by such rapid changes, for Collins, it felt like the perfect progression. Love can take many forms, and hers reflects the spontaneous magic and romantic adventure she always anticipated.
Ruthie Collins’ life story so far serves not only as a personal triumph but as inspiration for many. It brings to light how love can come unexpectedly and lead to grand adventures, incorporating everything from soothing heartbreak to celebrating newfound joy and familial love. The beautiful afterglow of her wedding, family, and forward momentum all combine to captivate the hearts of listeners across the globe.
Looking back, Collins acknowledges the quick sequence of events yet embraces each moment. It's clear she wouldn’t change her experience for anything. The cautionary tales of rushing relationships seem to fade when wrapped up in the whirlwind of pure romance, highlighted by Collins’ powerful lyrics and music. This singer's lovely life reminds us all to cherish love, explore boundaries, and embrace the unexpected turns along the way.
And as she embarks on this new chapter of motherhood and continues her musical career, fans will undoubtedly be tuned in to see how her personal experiences shape her artistry and the melodies she brings to life.
