Rosetta Dello Siesto, the beloved wife of renowned Sicilian writer Andrea Camilleri, passed away at the age of 97 on May 1, 2025, in a hospital in Rome. Her death marks the end of a remarkable partnership that lasted over six decades, during which she was not only a companion but also the first reader of every line Camilleri wrote.
Born in Milan, Rosetta graduated from La Sapienza University in Rome, where she wrote her thesis on Pico della Mirandola. It was in the capital where she met Camilleri, who was making his theatrical debut in 1953. He recalled in his book Ora dimmi di te. Lettera a Matilde that their first encounter occurred during rehearsals for his initial play, where Rosetta was assisting as a stagehand. Camilleri humorously noted, "Rosetta began to follow the rehearsals, but after a few days, I realized that the world of theater and its rules were a thousand miles away from her."
Despite her lack of familiarity with theater, their connection blossomed. Camilleri fondly remembered, "After the show went on stage, I left to spend a month in Sicily with my family. A week passed, and to my great surprise, not a day went by without me thinking of that girl." This realization led him to invite her to dinner upon his return to Rome, a decision that ignited a love story lasting more than sixty years.
The couple married in 1957 and welcomed three daughters: Andreina, Mariolina, and Elisabetta. They also became grandparents to four grandchildren and two great-grandchildren, creating a vibrant family that Rosetta cherished deeply. Camilleri often praised Rosetta, stating, "I have been a lucky man, and if my marriage has lasted so long, it is mainly due to Rosetta's intelligence, understanding, and patience. Our relationship has never been altered by any external event."
In a poignant tribute to his wife, Camilleri remarked, "There is no line I have published that has not been read by her first." This sentiment highlights the integral role Rosetta played in his literary success. She was not only his partner in life but also his confidante and critical reader, providing feedback that shaped his renowned works, including the beloved character of Commissario Montalbano.
Rosetta was a constant presence during Camilleri's career, which included years working with RAI, Italy's national public broadcasting company, and his later success as a novelist. The couple shared a life rich with experiences, moving between Rome and the picturesque landscapes of Porto Empedocle, Camilleri's hometown, and their Tuscan retreat in Bagnoli, Santa Fiora.
As news of her passing spread, Felice Cavallaro, president of the Strada degli Scrittori association, expressed condolences, stating, "The first reader of Andrea Camilleri's novels has left us. Donna Rosetta was a comfort and a pillar for the great storyteller, mother and grandmother of a family that found its center in her." This statement reflects the profound impact Rosetta had not only on Camilleri's life but also on their family and the literary community.
In his later years, Camilleri reflected on his life with Rosetta during an interview with Radio Capital, saying, "I have no regrets. I had a lucky life. The best memory? The day I got married. It was the happiest day of my life, with incredible incidents." This heartfelt acknowledgment of their marriage underscores the deep love and connection that defined their relationship.
Rosetta's legacy will undoubtedly live on through the memories of her family and the literary contributions she inspired. As the world remembers Andrea Camilleri for his storytelling brilliance, it is essential to recognize the quiet strength and unwavering support of Rosetta Dello Siesto, who stood by him throughout his journey.
In a world that often celebrates public figures for their achievements alone, the story of Andrea and Rosetta Camilleri serves as a reminder of the importance of partnership, love, and the shared journey of life. Their enduring bond is a testament to the power of companionship and the impact one person can have on another's life.
As we mourn the loss of Rosetta Dello Siesto, we also celebrate a life well-lived, filled with love, family, and a profound connection to one of Italy's most cherished literary figures. Her spirit will continue to resonate in the hearts of those who knew her and in the words of the stories that will forever carry her legacy.
