Dear readers, feedback and communication play pivotal roles not only for writers but for everyone seeking connection and information. Recently, I gathered some messages from you, my readers, filled with advice, thoughts, and even inquiries about my column. Thank you for taking the time to reach out! I truly value each email and call (though my voicemail gently nudges you to opt for email). Here’s a glimpse of what you’ve shared.
One reader, P., shared insights about organization, emphasizing the power of making lists. "Make lists. It seems simple, but it's true. Once you start forcing your brain to organize, it’s easier to get motivated. Including tasks like 'water, walk, eat a banana' also integrates self-care with work, alleviating any guilt associated with taking breaks," they noted. This practical advice resonates well, especially for anyone wanting to balance productivity with personal well-being.
P. also offered wisdom gained from their counseling work, discussing the vision of one’s future self. They suggested inviting discussion with this imagined 'older self' to provide guidance on current challenges. “What does your older self want to say to yourself now?” This reflective exercise can be incredibly insightful, showcasing the value of communicating with oneself through visualization.
Another reader expressed appreciation for my recent interview with Eric Thomas, stating, "I enjoyed his column very much and think he gives good advice. Thank you for the interview!" It’s always rewarding to hear when my work resonates with readers, fostering collective learning.
On the other hand, not all feedback was positive. One reader, D., shared their disappointment about the new formatting of The Oregonian, where my advice column is no longer appearing. "I am bummed, you, my most loyal fan, are bummed, but there's good news!" I responded. "You can sign up for the Advice for Life newsletter, and my column will show up directly in your inbox every Tuesday afternoon! Plus, I have many previous columns archived at oregonlive.com/whytho." Adaptation is key, and it’s gratifying to provide alternative solutions for my readers' concerns.
And then there’s reader J., who humorously questioned, "What the heck does 'Why Tho' mean?" The curiosity reflected here not only makes me smile but also emphasizes the importance of clear communication. Even the simplest phrases can leave people puzzled, and clarifying such expressions is part of good feedback.
This exchange highlights the continuous loop of communication between writer and audience. Your feedback motivates me, and your questions guide the direction I take with my columns. They are reminders of why I write and why I seek engagement—because every piece of advice or thought shared can spark discussion, wisdom, and growth.
Remember, you've got the power to shape this column! If you have any burning questions, please email me at [email protected], or for anonymity, utilize the Google form available to ask your questions. Communication is key to fostering connection, and I’m here for it!
Stay tuned for more, and thanks again for your continuous support!