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01 March 2025

Paola Maria Finds New Love Amidst Past Trauma

The beloved influencer opens up about her childhood difficulties and new relationship as she embraces life after divorce.

Paola Maria Koslowski, born on October 13, 1993, on the Italian island of Sicily, is not just another influencer; she is one of Germany's most beloved social media personalities, amassing millions of followers on platforms like YouTube and Instagram. But behind her cheerful persona lies a story of resilience, shaped by early trauma and the pursuit of personal happiness.

Paola grew up amid turmoil, living with her mother and younger sister Anna. Their father, who struggled with alcoholism, not only abandoned them but was also physically abusive. "It is nothing bad to seek help. [...] I wanted to give you courage, to share my story, and finally close this chapter for myself," she shared openly with her fans about her difficult childhood experiences. After her mother made the courageous decision to escape with her children to Germany, their lives took a significant turn.

Transitioning to her new life, Paola began her professional career with dreams of success. After training as a perfume specialist and briefly working in retail, she launched her YouTube channel "Paolas Welt" in October 2013. Her engaging videos on beauty, lifestyle, and fashion quickly gained traction, and she became known for not just her vibrant personality but also for her honest storytelling.

Despite her flourishing career, Paola's life took another pivotal turn when she met fellow YouTuber Alexander "Sascha" Koslowski, known for his comic duo, DieAussenseiter. Their relationship blossomed, leading to their engagement in October 2015 and their marriage two years later. The couple seemed like the quintessential YouTube power couple, celebrating the births of their two sons, Leonardo and Alessandro. Paola expressed joy about her role as a mother during this time. "The last few years, I've been very much of Mama. And through 'Let's Dance', I can once again do something for myself and find out: 'Where have I developed? What kind of person am I? What's still within me?" she revealed during her participation on the show.

Sadly, the fairy tale didn’t last. By February 2022, Paola and Alexander announced their divorce through YouTube, stating, "There is no hate between us [...] We are and remain family." Despite the mutual respect and shared parenting, the split was difficult. Reflecting on this challenging phase, Paola confessed, "There were moments when I was like, when is this actually over?" Still, she found solace as she began dating entrepreneur Alexander Thoss at the end of 2023.

Thoss, the founder of the home decor company Home Deluxe, also brought two daughters from his previous relationship to the budding love story. The pair frequently showcase their adventures and moments of joy on social media, depicting their beautiful patchwork family dynamic. Paola's transition from heartbreak to renewed hope appears inspiring to many fans. "I believe very firmly, even though my marriage failed, I believe in the construct of marriage, the typical family image. [...] Who knows what the future still holds for me?" she mused, underlining her romantic outlook.

Paola has made it known she values the time spent with her children from her marriage to Alexander. The personal growth and challenges she faced have shaped her perspective. Sharing her personal experiences and the lessons learned from her separation, she communicated her emotions with her audience, shedding light on the darker sides of her public life.

Now, amid her professional commitments and responsibilities as both mother and partner, Paola shares fitness tips and travel inspirations with her followers, emphasizing the importance of self-care and health. The scrolling past her social media pages, fans understand the commitment she has not just to maintain her image but to openly connect with her audience.

Paola's recent participation on 'Let's Dance' exemplifies how she channels her experiences and fights for her aspirations. It marks another important chapter for her as she journeys from personal tribulations to public engagements and achievements. She's ready to take those steps toward self-discovery and healing, and her story reminds many of the power of resilience and the beauty of new beginnings.

At every turn, Paola Maria's narrative unravels the intricacies of balancing personal memories with professional triumphs, echoing the sentiments of many young people striving for authenticity amid societal pressure. Her past may have shaped her, but it is clear she has emerged stronger, marking her path anew.