The mother of South African model Reeva Steenkamp, who was murdered by former Olympic and Paralympic champion Oscar Pistorius, has expressed deep concerns about his new relationship. June Steenkamp, 78, voiced clear warnings directed at Pistorius’s new girlfriend, Rita Greyling, following revelations about their alleged romance.
According to reports from The Sun, June Steenkamp cautioned about Pistorius's unresolved anger issues, stating, "He was angry – and he still has a problem with anger." These words come as Pistorius, now 38, reintegrates himself back to life after being released on parole for the killing of her daughter on Valentine's Day 2013.
Pistorius was convicted of the shooting death of Reeva, 29, after he fired four shots through the locked bathroom door at his luxury home, claiming he believed she was an intruder. The case, which captured global attention, led to significant legal battles after his initial conviction for culpable homicide was later upgraded to murder by South Africa's Supreme Court.
Following his release from prison, Pistorius reportedly found love again with Rita Greyling, 33, described as a family friend from Wakkerstroom, Mpumalanga. This new chapter for Pistorius is quite restricted—he must adhere to strict conditions of his parole, including regular checks and prohibition against contacting Reeva's family.
June Steenkamp, who founded the Reeva Steenkamp Foundation Against the Abuse of Women and Children, expressed disbelief at Rita's apparent ignorance of Pistorius’s past, saying, "I don’t understand how she doesn’t see a red flag about him because he has not lost his temper problem." She added concern for Rita's safety, reflecting her persistent belief Pistorious poses a risk: "He’s still a danger to women. Reeva only knew him for three months and she was dead. He’s never confessed."
While Pistorius is attempting to lead a low-profile life as he reintegrates, sources revealed he avoids public places like bars and restaurants. A close source noted, "He is trying to rebuild his life in a low-key way and avoids bars and restaurants and the general public and is flying under the radar." Currently, he resides with his uncle, who has made the home secure with armed guards.
Pistorius was originally sentenced to 13 years and five months, of which he served nine years before his release on January 5, 2024. Post-release, he is obligated to undergo therapy for anger and has been reminded of his high-profile status after being imprisoned for such serious crimes. His restrictions require him to stay within designated areas, and he cannot possess firearms or make contact with anyone from the Steenkamp family.
The emotional ramifications of Reeva's tragic death resonate deeply with her mother. June Steenkamp’s activism against gender-based violence stems from personal loss and her commitment to preventing other families from suffering similar tragedies. "It’s not painful for me to know he’s with this young woman—I’m just worried about her," she stated, highlighting the emotional scars left by the heinous act.
Pistorius has remained largely silent about his past, maintaining the narrative of mistaken identity and accidental shooting. His continued insistence on this perspective conflicts with the Steenkamp family's belief, who maintains Reeva was killed during a fit of rage, which has stirred public sentiment against him.
Despite his attempts at normalcy and reintegration, many wonder how society will continue to grapple with Pistorius's legacy and whether he can ever attain true forgiveness. Amidst all of this, the concerns raised by June Steenkamp resonate fiercely with those who actively campaign against domestic violence and gender-based crime, offering poignant reminders about the aftermath of violent acts.
This tragic saga highlights the complex intersections of justice, psychotherapy, and societal attitudes toward those who commit heinous acts. The story of Oscar Pistorius continues to serve as both cautionary tale and reminder of the importance of supporting survivors and advocating against violence.
