Nicole Kidman has opened up about the secrets behind her long and successful marriage to Keith Urban, centering her revelations around something many might find surprising: their bathroom setup. Speaking to W Magazine for their Best Performances issue, Kidman shared the unique aspects of their personal space and how they contribute to their relationship's longevity.
Kidman and Urban, who tied the knot at St Patrick's Estate in Sydney's Manly back in June 2006, have been married for nearly 20 years. Reflecting on the intimacy of their partnership, she humorously remarked, "We have a double shower. The double-headed shower: key to a successful marriage. Separate commodes and a double-headed shower!" Her statements reveal not only the playful tone of their relationship but also Kidman’s emphasis on the importance of personal space even within shared moments.
The 57-year-old actress expressed her romantic side, stating, "I do sing in the shower, and I also hear Keith singing... I'll hear his new songs forming." This highlights not only their bond but also their creativity as partners — living proof of how sharing even mundane moments can strengthen their connection.
Throughout their marriage, Kidman has often praised Urban for keeping their romance alive through spontaneity. "I like being asked out, which he still does," she told People, relating fond memories of evenings spent trying new restaurants. Their relationship has thrived on the continuous adventure of surprise and discovery, which is evident from their shared experiences.
Despite the couple's playful domestic life, they have faced significant challenges recently. The passing of Kidman’s mother, Janelle, last September has deeply affected them, with sources indicating the fear of Kidman burning out due to her hectic schedule promoting her upcoming film, Babygirl. After such heartbreak, close friends and family are reportedly encouraging the couple to move back to Australia.
Insiders have reported to Yahoo Lifestyle about the couple's plans of relocating following what has been deemed their "worst year yet." According to the sources, Urban is open to resuming his coaching role on The Voice Australia as he missed both coaching duties and being home. The arrangements would ideally allow him to provide Kidman with the support she needs during this trying time.
Friends have expressed concern about how much stress Kidman can endure after losing her mother and facing the demands of constant travel for film promotions. An insider noted, “The big worry on everyone’s minds is, how much more of this can she take?”
The couple had been spending much of their time split between Nashville, Beverly Hills, and New York, yet they maintain substantial property holdings back home, including a farmhouse and two penthouses. These spaces have become more than just addresses; they represent a refuge amid the chaos of their high-profile lives.
The return to Australia might not just be about geography; perhaps it’s also about recovering balance and closeness within their family unit. Following the loss of her mother, Kidman has been candid about her grieving process, mentioning how it evokes thoughts of her own mortality and the importance of family connections.
"Mortality. Connection. Life coming and hitting you," she said candidly, reflecting on how parental loss has shaped her worldview as both a daughter and mother. Kidman aims to honor her mother’s legacy by raising her two daughters, Sunday Rose and Faith Margaret, instilling values of expression and self-advocacy.
Despite the tumultuous year, Kidman and Urban continue to support each other. Kidman surprised Urban during his performance at Nashville's Big Bash New Year's Eve event, showcasing their enduring affection. The couple locked lips onstage, delighting the crowd of 220,000 and proving their commitment to one another with public displays of love.
"It’s definitely a joy being together, even amid stressful times," said Kidman, as she continue to promote new projects and juggle family responsibilities. Their marriage, punctuated by moments of humor, artistry, and heartfelt connection, serves as a reminder of how love can flourish amid life’s adversities.
Plans for the couple’s potential move back to Australia may indicate their desire to return to familiar ground and familial support. Whether they do take this step remains to be seen. Yet, the couple’s solid foundation, grounded in mutual appreciation and love, will surely follow them wherever they go.
Through the highs and lows, Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban's relationship exemplifies resilience. Their ability to maintain connection, joy, and humor highlights the secrets behind their lasting marriage, proving once more how love can prevail.