On April 15, 2025, Mirna Mastronardi, a 36-year-old mother from Pisticci, Basilicata, shared a heart-wrenching testimony about the tragic death of her daughter, Dea, during a session before the regional commission on crime in Bari. Her story, marked by deep emotional pain, has become a symbol of the often invisible struggles faced by today’s youth, particularly in relation to mental health and social media.
Dea, a vibrant 15-year-old girl, took her own life on October 4, 2024, leaving her family and community in shock. Mastronardi described Dea as a bright student who seemed to have a promising future. "Dea did not show any signs of distress before taking her life," she recounted, her voice breaking with sorrow. "She was good at school, affectionate, deeply connected to family. Nothing suggested such an extreme act. Just hours before, our usual goodnight hug seemed like any other. Instead, it turned out to be the last."
This tragedy is not an isolated incident. According to global statistics, over 1 in 7 adolescents between the ages of 10 and 19 live with a diagnosed mental disorder. Suicide has become the fourth leading cause of death among young people aged 15 to 19, with an average of 46,000 adolescent suicides occurring each year—more than one every 11 minutes. Experts warn that by 2030, mental health issues are projected to surpass cardiovascular diseases as the leading health concern worldwide.
The alarming rise in mental health problems among youth has been attributed to various factors, including the pervasive influence of smartphones and social media. Since 2013, when mobile devices became widely accessible, instances of self-harm among children and adolescents have increased significantly. The COVID-19 pandemic has exacerbated these issues, creating an environment where isolation and lack of social interaction have become common.
During her testimony, Mastronardi highlighted the societal pressures and the often unrealistic standards set by social media, which can lead to feelings of inadequacy and anxiety among young people. "The digital world is dark and frightening; it represents a cage for the youth. Just like obtaining a license is necessary to ride a scooter, a form of license should be required to access social media," she stated emphatically. Her concerns echo those of many experts who emphasize the need for greater awareness and preventive measures regarding the mental health of adolescents.
The impact of Mastronardi's testimony was palpable in the room. Luigi Caroli, the president of the commission, publicly thanked her for her courage and honesty, stating, "Your act of courage and truth compels us to act." This sentiment was echoed by others present, who acknowledged the urgent need to address these mental health crises through effective legislation and community support.
In the wake of her daughter's death, Mastronardi founded the association "Dea per sempre odv," aimed at raising awareness about the risks associated with the internet and providing support to young people in distress. She expressed her commitment to transforming her personal tragedy into a collective message, hoping to reach those who may be suffering in silence.
Her efforts have garnered attention at the highest levels, including a phone call from Italy's Prime Minister Giorgia Meloni, who expressed solidarity and a commitment to addressing youth mental health issues. "We must focus on the fragility of adolescents and advocate for regulatory measures concerning social media usage," Mastronardi urged, emphasizing the importance of creating a culture of listening and prevention.
Mirna Mastronardi's story is emblematic of a broader crisis affecting youth today. The increasing prevalence of mental health disorders among adolescents is a public health emergency that requires immediate attention and action from parents, educators, and policymakers alike. With her dedication and resilience, Mastronardi stands as a beacon of hope for many, reminding us that even in the depths of despair, there is potential for change and healing.
As her association continues to grow, Mastronardi hopes to create a supportive network for families dealing with similar issues, providing them with the tools and resources necessary to navigate the challenges of modern parenting in an increasingly digital world. "Even the smallest drop can create waves in an ocean of pain," she said, underscoring her belief in the power of community and collective action.
The tragic loss of Dea serves as a sobering reminder of the urgent need for open conversations about mental health, the impact of social media, and the importance of support systems for young people. As Mastronardi continues her mission, she embodies the strength and determination needed to confront these pressing issues head-on, advocating for a future where no parent has to endure the pain of losing a child to suicide.
