In the fast-paced world of football, where relationships often seem as fleeting as summer transfers, Lorena Bernal and Mikel Arteta stand out as a remarkable exception. Married for nearly 15 years, they have built a family away from the media frenzy that typically surrounds high-profile athletes and their partners. Bernal, who was crowned Miss España in 1999, is not just a model and actress; she is also a devoted mother to their three children: Gabriel, 14, Daniel, 11, and Oliver, 8.
While Arteta, the current coach of Arsenal, is focused on leading his team through the UEFA Champions League, the couple finds solace in their summer retreat in Mallorca. This picturesque island has become more than just a vacation spot; it is a second home where they can connect with nature and each other. “I have a lot of affection for it; it’s one of my homes, where I’ve put down roots,” Bernal expressed during the recent Mallorquines de Verano 2023 awards ceremony, where they were honored for their emotional connection to the island.
The couple's life in Mallorca is a stark contrast to their routine in London, where Arteta is at the helm of one of the Premier League's most prestigious clubs. Despite his high-profile job, Arteta prefers a lifestyle that is far from ostentatious. The family is often seen enjoying quiet walks on the beach or dining at low-key restaurants, embracing the anonymity that summer in Mallorca provides. “Here, we can just be Mikel and Lorena, parents of three kids and lovers of the sea,” Bernal noted.
As Arteta navigates the pressures of coaching, he finds balance in his family life. He has transformed Arsenal into a competitive force in the Premier League, a feat that has not come without its challenges. The coach, who turned 43 on March 26, 2025, has been at Arsenal since 2016, after serving as an assistant to Pep Guardiola at Manchester City. His journey is marked by a commitment to excellence, with aspirations of winning major titles, a goal he considers non-negotiable.
However, Arteta's life has not been devoid of personal struggles. He underwent heart surgery at just two years old, a fact he shared in a candid interview with the BBC, revealing the emotional weight of that experience: “It was one of the first surgeries of its kind in Spain, so we didn’t know how it would turn out.” His early health issues may have shaped his resilient character, allowing him to pursue his dream of becoming a professional footballer.
Meanwhile, Bernal has taken a step back from the limelight in recent years to focus on her family. Despite her successful career as a model and actress, she has prioritized motherhood, stating that raising her children is her main focus. Her selective public appearances often reflect her commitment to family over fame. “Maternity has become my priority,” she explained, suggesting that this balance has been a key factor in the longevity of her marriage.
In addition to her family commitments, Bernal has recently embarked on a new venture as an author. Her debut book, titled It Starts With You, aims to inspire readers to discover their true selves. Set to be released in Spanish as Empieza por ti on June 4, 2025, the book is a guide filled with lessons from her life, emphasizing the importance of emotional well-being and self-discovery. “The secret of happiness is closer than you think; it’s within you,” she asserts, sharing her philosophy on life.
Bernal's book targets women who may feel a sense of emptiness or uncertainty in their lives, offering them a new perspective on love, peace, and happiness. “I want readers to remember the happy child they once were, free of insecurities and filled with excitement for life,” she said. Her writing journey has been described as intense yet fulfilling, reflecting her desire to help others navigate their emotional landscapes.
The couple’s relationship is further strengthened by their shared values and experiences. They met in 2002 and married in 2010, forming a solid partnership that has weathered the pressures of public life. Through the years, they have supported each other’s careers while creating a nurturing home for their children. “It’s been a wonderful journey, full of intense moments, and it’s been beautiful to witness and be part of his journey for over 20 years,” Bernal remarked, showcasing her admiration for Arteta’s dedication.
As they balance their professional and personal lives, Bernal and Arteta exemplify a modern partnership grounded in mutual respect and love. Their ability to maintain a sense of normalcy amidst the chaos of fame is a testament to their commitment to family values. While Arteta strives for success on the football pitch, Bernal focuses on cultivating a loving home environment, ensuring that their children grow up with a strong sense of identity and purpose.
In a world where happiness can often feel elusive, Lorena Bernal’s journey serves as a reminder that fulfillment comes not from external achievements but from within. Her insights into happiness and self-acceptance resonate deeply, especially in today’s fast-paced society. As she continues to inspire others through her writing and coaching, Bernal remains a pillar of strength for her family, proving that true happiness is about cherishing the present moment and nurturing meaningful relationships.
