Martina Colombari, the former Miss Italia and a prominent actress, has opened up about her personal life in a candid interview with Corriere della Sera. As she approaches her 50th birthday on July 10, 2025, Colombari reflects on her journey as a mother, wife, and actress, while also addressing the challenges her son Achille has faced.
In the interview, Colombari shared that her son Achille, who is now 20 years old, is doing better after previously struggling with dependencies. "Achille is doing better. His story mirrors that of many adolescents and post-adolescents in a complicated world. Social media has targeted him because he is the son of two famous personalities, but there are many situations like his," she explained. This acknowledgment highlights the pressures faced by children of celebrities, often exacerbated by public scrutiny.
Colombari, who has been married to former footballer Alessandro 'Billy' Costacurta for 29 years, described the emotional toll of supporting her son through his difficulties. "Like any mother facing a difficult moment with her child, I was there for him as much as I could, doing what I had to do to understand his discomfort. Now it's all clearer; he is being supported by the right people. It took time. We were there for him," she said.
The actress also recounted a painful moment when a journalist suggested that Achille needed "a mother more than a woman" by his side. Colombari found this remark particularly hurtful, asserting, "I believe it is the greatest cruelty a woman can say to another." This statement underscores the societal pressures placed on mothers, especially those in the public eye, to conform to traditional roles.
As she prepares for her milestone birthday, Colombari is also navigating the complexities of aging and self-care. She is undergoing hormone therapy to manage menopause symptoms and emphasizes the importance of investing in her health. "I am preparing for this transition with a lifestyle that gives me confidence. It's essential to consult a gynecologist specialized in menopause. I am undergoing therapy with bioidentical hormones," she stated.
Colombari expressed her mixed feelings about turning 50, acknowledging that it can be a challenging transition for women, both physically and mentally. "I don’t know if I am ready for this change. It’s a turning point that doesn’t go unnoticed. For a woman, it’s harder to manage, both physically and mentally. One must prepare for it," she reflected.
Despite the societal pressures surrounding beauty, Colombari has learned to redefine her relationship with it. "I’ve exploited my beauty as if it were a talent, even though it’s not. I made sure to use it in roles where I needed it. But unfortunately, in our environment, if you’re beautiful, you’re not considered credible," she pointed out. This statement reveals the ongoing struggle many women face in balancing societal expectations with personal identity.
Her marriage to Costacurta is one of the longest-lasting in the entertainment industry, and Colombari credits their enduring love to mutual respect and understanding. "We balance each other. I am outgoing and egocentric, while he is not at all. We have an intimacy and serenity that have evolved our love. I wouldn’t want a feeling like when I was 20. Caring is love; taking time for oneself while knowing the other is okay is love," she explained.
Colombari also reminisced about her first love, the famous athlete Alberto Tomba, describing their relationship as a "Disney fairytale." She noted that while they do not communicate often, they occasionally exchange messages. "Our love was real. He was my first boyfriend, the first with whom I made love. It was a beautiful story, but it ended after a magazine cover that drew too much attention to me," she said.
Looking ahead, Colombari has plans for her 50th birthday that reflect her adventurous spirit. "Achille had booked a parachute jump a few months ago, but it was canceled due to bad weather. I would also love to return to Haiti, where I have been with the Rava Foundation," she shared. Her commitment to social causes is evident, as she has been a volunteer and spokesperson for the foundation for years.
In her pursuit of personal growth, Colombari draws inspiration from the late Rita Levi Montalcini, a Nobel laureate, who famously said, "Better to add life to days than days to life." This philosophy resonates with Colombari as she embraces new challenges and experiences.
As she navigates the complexities of motherhood, marriage, and aging, Martina Colombari remains a figure of resilience and strength, inspiring others with her candid reflections on life and love.
