In a poignant reflection on her brother, Maria Elena Bergoglio, the only surviving sibling of Pope Francis, shared her deep sorrow and cherished memories following his passing. "The love of Jorge was enormous and I will carry it with me," she expressed, highlighting the profound bond they shared throughout their lives.
Maria Elena, born on February 7, 1948, in Buenos Aires, is the youngest of five children born to Mario Bergoglio and Regina Maria Sivori. She grew up in a devout Catholic family in the Flores neighborhood, where her upbringing was marked by both love and hardship. The family, with roots in Piedmont and Liguria, emigrated to Argentina in 1928, facing economic challenges but maintaining a strong sense of dignity.
Tragedy struck in 1959 when Maria Elena's father died suddenly from a heart attack. At just 11 years old, Maria Elena found solace in her brother Jorge Mario, who would later become Pope Francis. "After the death of our father, he was like a father to me," she recalled in an interview with Famiglia Cristiana, emphasizing the protective role he took on during her formative years.
Maria Elena described her brother as not only a sibling but also her best friend. "He was always fun and supportive, as an older brother should be," she said, reminiscing about their childhood adventures. Despite the 13-year age gap, their connection remained strong, with Jorge often engaging in playful activities like soccer and participating in Catholic Action.
As an adult, Maria Elena faced her own challenges, including a divorce and health issues stemming from a stroke that left her unable to travel to the Vatican. Through these trials, Pope Francis remained a steadfast source of support. "He was always there for me, even when I was going through my divorce," she shared, underscoring the unwavering bond that persisted despite physical distance.
Her son, Jorge, named after the Pope, and her other son, José Ignacio, have also been deeply affected by their uncle's death. José was the first in the family to learn of the Pope's passing on April 21, 2025, receiving notifications on his phone. He expressed how his uncle's presence was felt even during his 12 years in the Vatican, as Pope Francis frequently reached out to the family. "He would always start a conversation with a joke, and he knew how to guide and advise me," José reflected.
Maria Elena's memories of their family life are filled with warmth and tradition. She fondly recalls their Sunday gatherings, where the family would attend mass and then share a large meal together. "We were poor but lived with great dignity," she said, highlighting the values instilled in them from a young age.
In her recent statements, Maria Elena expressed the profound impact of her brother's service to the world. "Jorge's love for the world was enormous. He understood that true power is service. He was always there for others," she stated, urging people to pray for him one last time. This sentiment reflects the core of Pope Francis's teachings and his commitment to helping those in need.
As the world mourns the loss of Pope Francis, Maria Elena Bergoglio stands as a testament to the enduring love and connection that family can provide. Her reflections not only honor her brother's legacy but also illuminate the values of compassion and service that he championed throughout his life.
In the wake of his passing, the Bergoglio family continues to remember the joy and love that Pope Francis brought to their lives. Maria Elena remains in Buenos Aires, supported by her two sons, as they navigate this difficult time together, cherishing the memories of their beloved brother and uncle.
