Verónica Dulanto and Antonio Montero are two prominent names in Spanish journalism, both known for their careers on television. Recently, they found themselves discussing personal aspects of their lives in front of audiences eager to hear about their experiences in long-term relationships. Verónica, married to Andrés for 20 years, and Antonio, with Marisa Martín-Blázquez, have both offered a unique glimpse into the complexities of love, intimacy, and public scrutiny.
During a recent episode of 'Tardear' on Friday, March 21, 2025, Dulanto became the center of attention when she posed a rather provocative question to her fellow guests, Marisa and Antonio: "Do you still have sex?" This question, while undeniably personal, sparked a lively discussion that exposed not only the realities of long-term partnerships but also the humor with which they navigate potentially awkward topics.
Marisa, quick on the uptake, turned the tables and asked Verónica in return about her own intimate life with Andrés. Verónica's response was telling: she shrugged and gave a rather lackluster "Well…", hinting at a complexity in her marital intimacy that many can relate to but few openly discuss. "Is that a problem in our relationship? No, no, no, let’s just say we’re fine with the therapist for now, but when we need a sexologist, I promise I’ll call you," Marisa joked, maintaining a lighthearted tone throughout.
Verónica and Andrés' story began in 2004 during a seemingly serendipitous trip to Ibiza. As fate would have it, a casual encounter at a birthday party blossomed into a relationship that would stand the test of time. Both were at different stages in their lives, with Andrés working in Germany while Verónica was establishing her career in Madrid. Their romance, which involved no phone numbers exchanged at first, later rekindled through a mutual friend, leading to countless dinners and a partnership that resulted in two daughters, Carla, 13, and Romina, 10.
On June 21, 2008, they exchanged vows in a ceremony marked by love, laughter, and, according to Verónica, a sweltering Madrid heatwave. "It all went by so quickly, especially for brides. I had 150 buttons on my dress, which took forever to fasten. The whole day sped past, and before I knew it, I was exhausted by 7 in the morning," she reminisced.
Although marriages evolve and intimacy can decrease over the years, Verónica and Andrés have created a resilient partnership built on companionship and respect. Their ability to communicate openly, even about sensitive subjects such as physical intimacy—demonstrated during the television segment—suggests that humor plays an integral role in their relationship. "I’m in love with my daughters," Verónica admits, positioning her role as a mother at the forefront of her life’s passions.
Conversely, the conversation with Antonio Montero took a slightly different turn. During an appearance on the podcast 'Chico de revista', he revealed an unexpected thought: he had considered suggesting to Marisa the possibility of an open relationship. This revelation raised eyebrows and led to a hearty discussion about the nature of their own connection, especially concerning their wedding night which has two very different retellings. According to Antonio, the evening was filled with romance and joy, but Marisa had her reservations, pointing out that his state of inebriation made the night memorable for all the wrong reasons.
"I had to pick up my wedding dress and help him up the stairs, He was a bit too tipsy," she recounted, revealing the humorous reality contrasting with Antonio’s more romantic narrative. With a wedding attended by over 300 guests, it’s no wonder that the night ended with such colorful stories—each capturing the essence of their unique journey together.
As both couples navigate their marital landscapes, they showcase the delicate balance between the romantic ideal and day-to-day reality. The public nature of their careers brings additional scrutiny, raising questions about whether their relationships conform to societal expectations. A few days after these candid exchanges, audiences are likely left contemplating what love looks like in the long run. Is passion something that can sustain itself over two decades, or does it inevitably shift into something different yet equally valuable?
Ultimately, both Verónica and Antonio are testaments to the idea that love doesn't have to conform to one singular narrative. Whether it’s the laughter shared over awkward discussions about sex, the retelling of wedding night stories, or the tender moments spent with their children, they exemplify a complex yet fulfilling approach to long-term relationships. Through laughter, support, and a bit of introspection, they remind us that while love evolves, the foundation of a strong marriage remains—one built on mutual respect, humor, and understanding.