Japanese celebrity and model Kondo Chihiro recently made waves on the popular Fuji TV program "Pokapoka," where she opened up about the challenges of family life and the dynamics of her marriage to comedian Ota Hirohisa.
During the episode aired on March 3, 2025, Kondo shared her experiences as a working mother, discussing her frustrations with domestic responsibilities and the parenting roles she and Ota undertake. The atmosphere was filled with laughter and insights as Kondo revealed one entertaining yet relatable scenario involving their daughters.
"My daughter warned me, 'Don't make daddy cry!'" Kondo recounted, highlighting the innocent yet impactful advice she received from their children. This led to a lively discussion as Kondo expressed her need to balance work and parenting. "Since both of us work, there are definitely frustrations, like when I think, 'Why am I the one doing everything when we split rent and education costs?" she added, shedding light on the confusions faced by many working parents striving for equality at home.
Kondo humorously commented on her emotional approach to conflicts with her husband, sharing, "I tend to explode every six months... when I argue with my husband for about 30 minutes, he ends up crying." This candidness was met with applause from her fellow guests and the studio audience, illustrating how Kondo and Ota strive to maintain harmony, especially around their children.
The conversation turned heartwarming as Kondo described her daughters' reactions during family conflicts. "We try not to fight in front of the kids, but during one of those times, our daughters came out and found their dad crying. They'd first say, 'Why is mommy making daddy cry?" The overwhelming support for Ota from the children sparked much amusement within the studio as Kondo elaborated on the affection they have for their father.
Kondo reflected on the instances her daughters sided with their father during these emotionally charged situations. "Why do our daughters side with dad?" she wondered aloud, only to receive the response from them explaining, "Dad makes fried rice when mom is at work and takes out the trash." This innocent remark indicated how Ota's bond with their children is often built on simple acts of love and care.
Co-hosts Harai Chimu and Iwai Yuuki chimed in, affirming Ota's role as the diligent dad. Harai suggested, "Papa definitely has the advantage there. He is kind to them, and the occasional special dish like his fried rice gives it this unique feeling for the kids." The banter showcased the comedic empathy within the team, emphasizing the importance of recognizing the efforts both parents contribute.
Reflecting on her life with Ota, Kondo shared how her life took shape after their marriage on September 2015. The couple welcomed their first daughter, the first of three, which adds to the lively household. Kondo celebrated the addition of family members, with their third daughter born only last August 2024.
The humorous yet genuine dynamics of family life drew generous laughter from everyone present. Kondo's revelations resonate with many viewers, showcasing the emotional rollercoaster involved in raising children and maintaining relationships.
With heartfelt reflections about nurturing their daughters, Kondo voiced, "Even though Ota might struggle during these emotional conversations, it calls for both of us to step up. It’s tempting to think, 'Maybe I do too much,' but I realize I need to appreciate his contributions and also recognize our roles within the family more fairly."
Throughout the episode, Kondo stayed true to the lighthearted yet sincere vibe, contributing not only humor but significant observations on dual parenting. These relatable anecdotes highlight the intricacies of sharing parenthood and the ever-present challenges of balancing work and family life.
Her openness encourages viewers to see both the funny and the genuine sides of family life. This episode serves as more than just entertainment; it's a reminder of the shared responsibilities and tender moments found within their home, bringing the audience closer to the realities of life as part of Japan's celebrity sphere.
Through laughter and honest discussions, Kondo and Ota continue to express how love and teamwork thrive under their roof—a harmonious blend of laughter, affection, and the occasional tear, reminding everyone of the beautiful chaos known as family life.