Kirstie Allsopp, renowned TV presenter of Channel 4's Location, Location, Location, has secretly married her partner of over two decades, Ben Andersen, at London's historic Grosvenor Chapel. The couple, who has been together since 2004 and share two sons, Bay and Oscar, exchanged vows on January 23, pleasingly keeping the event intimate and private.
Situated in Mayfair, the Grosvenor Chapel holds sentimental value for Allsopp as it is not only recognized for its role in the romantic comedy Love Actually but also as the site where her parents and grandparents tied the knot. "To marry in the same church my parents and grandparents married was always my hope, and luckily I already know we did live happily ever after," the delighted bride shared with The Mail on Sunday.
With over 70 guests attending, the wedding was conducted discreetly, with attendees only made aware of the true purpose behind the gathering just days before the event. Many were led to believe they were celebrating Andersen's 64th birthday. "It's a huge privilege listening to your son give a speech at your wedding..." Allsopp added on social media, reflecting on the special moments shared on their big day.
The ceremony, which lasted around 40 minutes, featured heartfelt elements including the Beatles' iconic song "All You Need Is Love"—an homage to the aforementioned movie. Allsopp, who wore a stunning customized gold sequin and tulle gown by Oscar de la Renta, described the arrangements as enchanting yet quickly put together, with many details orchestrated at the last minute due to the couple's desire for secrecy. Unfortunately for the couple, their wish for privacy was slightly thwarted when they discovered there was paparazzi outside, leading Allsopp to release her own images from the day.
Allsopp has always maintained her independence, famously stating, "I have no problem being a middle-aged girlfriend with an even older middle-aged boyfriend," and even previously hinting at her lack of urgency for marriage. The distinct nature of this wedding reflects the couple's unique history; they were introduced by Andersen's ex-wife, Theresa, and had developed their strong bond without the traditional pressures often associated with relationships.
Despite being together for 21 years, the couple rarely appears together publicly and keeps their personal lives under wraps, leading to speculation over their relationship status. Their reticent public persona is clear; Allsopp actively responded to rumors surrounding their romance, insisting she did not "steal" Andersen away from his previous marriage. Allsopp clarified this point, stating, "I did not steal him. Ben's wife, whom I knew at school and whom he was already separated from, introduced us."
Their family life is enriched by their two sons and Andersen's two children from his previous marriage. Allsopp has openly described her commitment to her role as a stepmother, noting the thought and effort she puts forth to nurture her family relationships. She has recognized the challenges of blending families, expressing, "I can honestly say I have put more thought and effort to my relationship with my stepsons than anything else in my life."
Leading up to the wedding, Allsopp had implied she was content without tieing the knot, highlighting the couple's dynamic of mutual respect and individualism. The former chairman of Christie's, Charles Allsopp, her late father, was memorialized at the chapel, which emphasizes the union's depth and familial roots. This emotional layer adds richness to their nuptials, transforming what could have been merely the latest trend of extravagant ceremonies to something deeply personal and heartfelt.
Despite the secrecy surrounding their wedding planning—an aspect so unknown to many, including her long-time co-host Phil Spencer—the couple managed to weave elements of surprises, love, and commitment throughout their ceremony. The success of their union may be attributed to their approach of maintaining harmony over obligation, choosing to prioritize their bond above the societal constructs of marriage.
Allsopp's recounts of the day reflect genuine joy, proven by the smiles captured during their son’s speech at the wedding and the celebratory atmosphere among family and friends. The couple may have taken their time deciding on marriage, but the love and commitment highlighted on this radiant day emerges as truly romantic. They have perhaps finally enfolded themselves within the traditional bounds of marriage, marking their relationship as they usher themselves through this new chapter of their life together.