John Miller, the longtime boyfriend of actress Jennifer Garner, is reportedly feeling uneasy as Garner grows closer to her ex-husband, Ben Affleck. Sources indicate Miller finds himself feeling like the "third wheel" as Affleck and Garner, who divorced in 2015, have been leaning on each other significantly more during the past few months.
One insider revealed, "[He] knows Ben and Jen have been leaning on each other more than ever lately and have a really close relationship." This growing bond has reportedly become bothersome for Miller, particularly when Affleck spends major holidays like Christmas and Thanksgiving with them. The source continued, "Their growing bond is getting to be a bit much when Ben spends all the holidays with them like Christmas and Thanksgiving. John feels like a third wheel."
The friendship between Affleck and Garner has reportedly shifted from purely co-parenting to closer communication. Another insider pointed out, "It used to be solely about the kids, but John feels like it could be more than just about their co-parenting relationship." This suggests the dynamic has changed, with Garner and Affleck now text messaging and calling each other far more than they have over the years.
Despite his feelings of jealousy, Miller does not believe Garner will reconcile with Affleck. According to the insider, "He doesn't feel threatened in terms of Jen ever getting back with Ben, but at the same time it's hard not to feel jealous when it's clear they have a strong connection and friendship." This complex emotional web has led to tension, and insiders are beginning to wonder how long Miller can tolerate the situation.
Reports suggest this new dynamic could potentially jeopardize Miller and Garner's relationship. One source mentioned, "It's getting to the point where it's really starting to seem like Jennifer would rather be with Ben than him – and a lot of people are predicting he's going to walk." Despite initial acceptance of Garner’s support for Affleck following the actor's split from Jennifer Lopez, Miller’s patience is reportedly waning as he witnesses the closeness between his girlfriend and her ex.
Interestingly, Miller and Garner were supposedly discussing wedding plans earlier this year, with the couple reportedly eyeing Paris as their dream wedding location. An insider previously stated, "Jen and John have taken a lot more trips to Europe than people realize. Paris is one of their favorite escapes and they’ve decided getting married there this coming spring is something they want to do." This hints at serious intentions but creates uncertainty amid the turmoil.
Miller reportedly was supportive initially but grew frustrated after Garner chose to spend both Thanksgiving and Christmas with Affleck and their children. The tension is evident as insiders speculate about the state of Garner and Miller's relationship due to Affleck's presence at important family gatherings. } According to one anonymous source, "John's fine with them co-parenting. He's not saying she should cut Ben out of her life. But he's sick and tired of standing back..."
The delicate balance Garner attempts to maintain—supporting Affleck and fulfilling her role as a mother—is commendable yet complicated. While Affleck and Garner have managed to cultivate their friendship and prioritize their children, Miller's position continues to be challenging. He appreciates Garner’s dedication to parenting but is less enthused about being the afterthought.
Diplomatic co-parenting can be tricky for anyone, especially when the past re-emerges. For Garner, maintaining the familial unit for her kids is pivotal, yet the strain on her relationship with Miller raises questions about the future. The intertwined lives showcase the dualities of friendship and romance amid the backdrop of family and commitment.
All things considered, Miller's perspective on the situation underlines the emotional ramifications of such entangled relationships, highlighting the nuances of love and friendship when co-parenting is involved. Garner and Affleck might continue co-parenting amicably, but the question remains: at what cost to Miller?