In the wake of their
divorce, Jennifer Lopez seems to be struggling to move forward as she continues to measure every new prospect against her high-profile ex, Ben Affleck. According to an insider, "Jen genuinely wants to date again, but every guy she meets just doesn’t measure up to Ben." This reticence to fully let go is further complicated by her feelings regarding Affleck's increasingly jovial friendship with his ex-wife, Jennifer Garner. The source noted that Lopez is "finding it painful to watch Affleck and Garner rekindle their friendship," which is a reminder of their shared history and family ties.Meanwhile, Affleck has been seen leaning on Garner more since his split from Lopez last year. The former couple, who share three children, were recently spotted at a paintball park in Castaic, California, celebrating their son’s 13th birthday. Observers remarked that there were "sparks flying" between the two as they laughed and shared affectionate interactions. An onlooker mentioned they were "giggling and joking and having a great time with each other," which sparked renewed speculation regarding their relationship dynamics.Body language expert Patti Wood analyzed a hug the duo shared during the outing, noting, "His hug is not something you do with an ex," emphasizing the familiarity and emotional connection reflected in his posture and gestures. Over the years, Affleck has openly expressed his regrets about his divorce from Garner, famously calling it "the biggest regret of my life." Garner has echoed sentiments of affection, describing Affleck poignantly, stating, "He's the love of my life. What am I going to do about that?"Despite the continued closeness, Garner is in a long-term relationship with businessman John Miller, having been together since 2018. Sources close to Garner claim that while Miller is generally patient, he is aware of the amount of time she spends with Affleck, prompting concerns about their dynamic. "John wants Jen for himself," the insider shared, explaining how Miller has been trying to remain quiet about the situation, yet finds it increasingly challenging.As for Lopez, sources revealed that she has had multiple low-key dates arranged by her team, but none of these interactions have flourished. "She’s got this idea of the perfect relationship, and if a guy doesn’t fit the mold, she moves on before giving it a real chance," another source commented. This pattern reveals a woman who, despite her star power and countless admirers, is still tethered to the past.In a twist that adds layers to the unfolding narrative, Affleck has also reportedly been reaching out to Lopez once again. "He’s been reaching out to Jennifer [Lopez] again recently," a source told Page Six. Lopez, however, appears determined to focus on her new projects and her children, seemingly attempting to navigate the waters of her newfound independence.Adding to the intrigue, Lopez is working alongside actor Brett Goldstein on a project titled "Office Romance," where sparks of chemistry have also been noted. "Goldstein has made it clear he’s interested, and Jen enjoys his company," a source revealed, suggesting that Lopez may be at least open to exploring new feelings as she continues to balance her professional commitments.Yet amidst all these transitions, reports have emerged about Affleck reflecting on his past relationship with Ana de Armas, which developed during a period of lockdown during the pandemic. An insider detailed, "Ben and Ana had such a special and unique relationship because they were holed up together 24/7 during the pandemic. They got so close so fast, and it was passionate and real." Affleck is said to wish that he could "go back and do it differently," but acknowledges that time has moved on since then.While the public eye continues to track these evolving relationships, it's clear that both Lopez and Affleck are on their respective journeys of rediscovery and reflection. Whether or not they will find peace in their new lives will be revealed in time, but for now, they are finding enjoyment in their children's lives, their careers, and perhaps in each other from a distance.
