Jeanie Buss, the owner of the Los Angeles Lakers, has recently caused quite the stir on social media with revelations about her marriage to comedian Jay Mohr. The couple, who tied the knot back in September 2023 after dating since 2017, have opted for what many would call an unconventional living arrangement: they sleep separately.
Buss and Mohr reside in the same building, but with very different views. Buss occupies the third floor, and Mohr resides on the first floor. To make matters even more interesting, they have another couple living between them, creating what Buss describes as a unique but functional setup. "We live together, we're at the same address but I'm unit #3 and he's unit #1," Buss explained during her recent interview with Graham Bensinger. It's evident this arrangement works for them as they have no intention of changing it.
Emphasizing her need for space, Buss revealed, "We don't really want to change anything because I like my space and I have my schedule and he likes his space and has his schedule." This sentiment was echoed by Mohr, who humorously pointed out the gross side of sharing a bed: "Guys are gross… we just make sound, we sweat, the sheets get all wrinkly and weird." By living separately, both feel they can maintain their individual routines, yet remain connected. Buss jokingly noted how she can take the elevator down to spend time with him and then return to her own space—something she seems to genuinely enjoy.
Though their decision might raise eyebrows—especially among those who view marriage as traditionally involving sharing everything—Buss is quick to defend their choice. She boldly stated, "I would recommend it to any couple who feels the same way," indicating her belief in the effectiveness of their unconventional marital arrangement.
This unique relationship is not just about physical space; it reflects Buss's history with relationships as well. Before Mohr, Buss was engaged to former Lakers head coach Phil Jackson and had one marriage to volleyball player Steve Timmons. Her connection with Mohr, particularly his son Jackson, has undoubtedly shaped their bond. Mohr’s struggles with substance abuse brought the couple closer, as Buss stayed committed through his recovery process. "I had grown attached to [his son Jackson] and worried about him," she recalled, emphasizing the depth of their connection.
Despite public mixed reactions—ranging from supportive to questioning the validity of their marriage—Buss and Mohr appear to have found their new normal. They manage to see each other every morning, afternoon, and evening, yet don’t feel the need to be physically together at night. This unconventional living situation has sparked discussions about the nature of relationships today, often emphasizing the importance of personal space and autonomy.
Fans and social media users have weighed in with varied opinions, fueling debates about whether sleeping separately diminishes the essence of marriage. They pose questions about how love is expressed if partners choose separate nights, prompting some to wonder if this arrangement is more about convenience than affection. Comments have ranged from humor—suggesting they might be relationship goals—to skepticism, with some claiming it undermines the concept of marriage itself.
Regardless of public opinion, Buss and Mohr's ability to manage their personal lives indicates they hold firm to what works for them, blending love and space without the traditional constraints. This arrangement allows them to enjoy their own rhythms, facing nothing less than the challenges of modern relationships with creativity and confidence.
At the end of the day, Jeanie Buss’s perspective serves as a reminder: there’s no single way to be married or share life with someone. Instead, the key is finding what works best for each couple—no matter how unconventional it may seem to the outside world.