Ilary Blasi is set to take viewers on a personal and heartfelt exploration of her life through the forthcoming Netflix docuseries titled Ilary, scheduled to premiere on January 9, 2025. This five-part series delves deeply not onlyinto her life post-separation from ex-husband Francesco Totti but also introduces her relationship with new partner Bastian Muller.
At 43 years old, Blasi candidly compares her current reality with the life she envisioned, saying, "Mi sono dovuta abituare all’idea che quel nucleo familiare non c’è più, e che non ci sarà più. Ma credo che sia più triste e pericoloso rimanere fermi e passivi. Il cambiamento fa parte di noi" (I had to get used to the idea the family I had is gone, and it won't come back. But I think it's sadder and more dangerous to be still and passive. Change is part of us).
The series portrays her life with family members, including her sisters Melory and Silvia, and emphasizes her adjustments as she navigates motherhood as a separated parent. Notably, her children — Cristian, 19, Chanel, 17, and Isabel, 8 — do not make significant appearances, highlighting her transition away from the traditional family structure she once maintained.
Blasi's friends and family affirm her resilience, with many declaring, "Ilary è rinata" (Ilary has been reborn) throughout the series. The renewal of her spirit following her challenging separation from Totti is central to the narrative, encapsulating her determination to reclaim her identity.
One particularly touching aspect is her bond with her new partner, Bastian Muller. Their relationship blossomed unexpectedly when they met at an airport lounge. She reminisces, "Io per tornare a Roma e lui in Germania. Non mi aveva mai vista prima e non sapeva chi fossi, per fortuna. Mi ha attesa fuori dalla toilette, si è presentato e poi invece di chiedermi il numero mi ha chiesto quale fosse il mio profilo Instagram" (I was heading back to Rome, and he was heading to Germany. He had never seen me before and didn't know who I was, luckily. He waited for me outside the restroom, introduced himself, and instead of asking for my number, he asked for my Instagram profile).
This modern twist to their romantic encounter brings humor and relatability to her story. Reflecting on her two older children's reactions to his nationality, she recounts Cristian's playful inquiry, "Ma perché tedesco?" (But why German?). Blasi describes how her youngest, Isabel, initially referred to Muller as "il signore inglese" (the English gentleman), showcasing the innocence and curiosity of children adapting to her new relationship.
Throughout the series, Blasi emphasizes her approach to motherhood after separation, relying significantly on her strengths and capabilities to raise her children. Addressing her parenting responsibilities, she states, "Ho sempre fatto da sola, contato sulle mie forze, deciso io per i ragazzi" (I always had to do it alone, rely on my strengths, and make decisions for the kids). She elaborates on the balance she maintains, noting, "Quindi non è variato molto, non ho sentito il peso di una nuova situazione. Insomma, è tutto come prima" (So not much has changed, I haven't felt the weight of a new situation. It's basically all the same).
Reflecting on her past, Blasi acknowledges the beauty and emotional resonance of her previous life, stating quite philosophically, "Il passato non si cancella e sarebbe un peccato farlo" (The past cannot be erased, and it would be a shame to do so). Her insights reveal both nostalgia and resilience, as she navigates this new phase of her life.
Blasi concludes her reflections by embracing the present and future, emphasizing the importance of living for today rather than being tied to the past. Her earnest approach to life encourages viewers to reflect on their journeys and the many changes life can bring.
This docuseries not only promises to shed light on the personal growth of Ilary Blasi, but also serves as inspiration for many facing life's unexpected turns, illuminating how changes can lead to new beginnings and renewed strength.
