Horst Lichter, the beloved German television personality and host of "Bares für Rares," recently opened up about one of the most painful moments in his life—the death of his first daughter. Speaking candidly during an interview on "stern TV," Lichter reflected on the profound impact this tragedy has had on him, revealing how it shaped his perspective on life and relationships.
Born in 1984, Lichter's oldest daughter passed away after just six months due to sudden infant death syndrome, a loss that he says still haunts him today. Now 63, Lichter shared, "I regularly think of my daughter; she would now be 41. Her death moves me to this day." This heartfelt admission highlights not only his enduring grief but also the long-lasting effects of such a traumatic experience.
During the interview, Lichter recounted the overwhelming sense of isolation he felt following his daughter's death. At just 22 years old, he and his wife were left to cope with their grief largely alone. "It was as if no one wanted to be around us because they felt sorry for us," he explained. "It was a time when I realized that I had to learn to deal with this situation by myself. How do you respond? Saying 'I’m sorry' doesn't help. You have to find a way to move forward if you want to continue living," he added.
The emotional weight of this loss was compounded by the pressure Lichter felt to be strong for his family. "Someone had to remain strong," he recalled, emphasizing the need to support his wife during such a devastating time. "You have your wife, and you can imagine what happens to a mother. Your parents, your in-laws, your siblings—everything collapses around you. You can’t just lie down and say, 'Now we cry.'" This sense of duty to his family reflected Lichter's character, a trait that has resonated with many of his fans.
In addition to this heart-wrenching loss, Lichter has faced other significant health challenges throughout his life. As a child, he suffered a spinal fracture, and in his twenties, he endured two strokes and a heart attack. These experiences have undoubtedly contributed to his resilience and ability to connect with others who have faced hardship.
Despite these trials, Lichter has found happiness in his personal life. He is currently married to his third wife, Nada, with whom he has shared a life for nearly three decades. Their relationship began under somber circumstances; Nada was previously married to Lichter's best friend, who tragically passed away from cancer. The bond formed between Lichter and Nada during their mutual grief blossomed into love, and they married in 2009 after eleven years together.
"Nada and I have come a long way together," Lichter said, expressing gratitude for their enduring partnership. "We are going into our 29th year together. She is my great happiness." This sentiment speaks volumes about the strength of their relationship, built on shared experiences and mutual support.
In a lighter moment during the interview, Lichter humorously noted the couple's shared penchant for cleaning, joking that if they had all the days they spent tidying up, they would likely live to be 140 years old. "We both enjoy cleaning. We really have something wrong with us!" he laughed.
Looking ahead, Lichter is also excited about his work. He is currently reading Waldi's new crime novel, "Mord am Schätztag," and is looking forward to filming the upcoming "Bares für Rares" XXL show in Andernach at the picturesque Landgut Nettetal. His passion for his work and his enthusiasm for new projects reflect a man who has found a way to channel his experiences into creativity and joy.
Horst Lichter's story is one of resilience, love, and the enduring impact of loss. His willingness to share his journey not only sheds light on the complexities of grief but also serves as an inspiration for others navigating similar paths. Through his openness and vulnerability, Lichter reminds us all of the importance of connection, support, and the strength that can be found in shared experiences.
