Hilaria Baldwin, the yoga instructor and wife of actor Alec Baldwin, recently shared heartwarming insights into her family life during an appearance on the May 7, 2025, episode of Today with Jenna and Friends. The 41-year-old mother of seven discussed her new memoir, Manual Not Included, which was published just a day prior, on May 6, 2025, and reflected on her role as a step-grandmother.
During the lively conversation with host Jenna Bush Hager and guest co-host Matt Rogers, Hilaria expressed her joy in becoming a grandmother. She revealed that her step-granddaughter, Holland, who is the daughter of Alec's eldest child, Ireland Baldwin, affectionately calls her "Abuelita." This tender moment not only highlights Hilaria's expanding family but also showcases the close-knit relationships within the Baldwin household.
Hilaria and Alec Baldwin, who married in 2012, are parents to three daughters—Carmen Gabriela, María Lucía Victoria, and Ilaria Catalina Irena—and four sons: Rafael Thomas, Leonardo Ángel Charles, Romeo Alejandro David, and Eduardo "Edu" Pao Lucas. The couple welcomed their youngest daughter, Ilaria, on September 22, 2022. Alec also shares his eldest daughter, Ireland, with ex-wife Kim Basinger.
In her memoir, Hilaria opens up about her experiences as a mother and the challenges of juggling a large family. She humorously recounted her fears of potentially having more children, stating, "I was putting away my maternity clothes recently and was like, 'I'm afraid to give them away because then I'll find out I'm pregnant.'" She also noted that every time she has a baby, her obstetrician writes down the contact information for a vasectomy doctor on a Post-It note, which she brings home to Alec. However, she quipped, "He hasn't done it yet." This lighthearted approach to family planning has resonated with many parents who understand the complexities of raising children.
As Hilaria navigates her role as a mother and now a grandmother, she emphasizes the joy and chaos that comes with a big family. Alec, 67, has expressed similar sentiments, stating in a recent interview, "I wouldn't change anything" about their family dynamics. He humorously remarked, "You know where I should be right now, don’t you? We should be on Geffen’s yacht, drinking a cappuccino and reading a book, and having dinner with Spielberg or whatever. Instead, we’re changing diapers!" This candid reflection underscores the couple's commitment to their family, despite the hectic nature of their lives.
Hilaria's memoir, Manual Not Included, provides readers with an insider look at her family life, revealing the ups and downs of parenting and the love that binds them together. As she continues to share her journey, she hopes to inspire others navigating similar paths.
Amidst the joyful chaos, Hilaria Baldwin's story serves as a reminder of the beauty of family, the challenges of motherhood, and the laughter that often accompanies it. As she embraces her role as a grandmother and reflects on her journey, her insights resonate with many who find themselves in similar situations.
With the release of their upcoming TLC reality series, The Baldwins, set to premiere in February 2025, fans can expect to see even more of the Baldwin family's dynamic and the love that fuels their daily lives. Hilaria's openness about her family life continues to draw admiration and support from fans, who appreciate her authenticity and humor.
In a world where family dynamics can often be complicated, Hilaria and Alec Baldwin showcase the joy that comes from embracing the beautiful messiness of life together. As they navigate parenthood and grandparenthood, their story reminds us all to cherish the moments spent with loved ones, no matter how chaotic they may be.