In a surprising revelation, comedian Eric André has expressed regret over turning down a role in the critically acclaimed film A Real Pain, which earned Kieran Culkin an Academy Award for Best Supporting Actor. Speaking on Andrew Santino's podcast, Whiskey Ginger, André shared how he was initially offered the role of Benji Kaplan, a quirky cousin in the dark comedy-drama written and directed by Jesse Eisenberg.
A Real Pain follows two estranged cousins, David and Benji, as they embark on a Jewish heritage tour of Poland to honor their late grandmother. The film resonates deeply with Eisenberg's own family history, reflecting themes of loss and survival during the Holocaust. "Two years ago, Jesse Eisenberg called me and offered me the role that Kieran Culkin got the Oscar for," André recalled during the podcast. He ultimately declined the role after reading the script, stating that the film seemed "miserable and not in my lane."
André elaborated on his decision, explaining, "To go to Poland for six weeks and shoot a movie where we’re just babbling about the Holocaust, seems like a bummer." He appreciated the offer but felt it wasn’t the right project for him at that moment. Reflecting on Culkin's success, he quipped, "The motherfer won an Oscar for the role I passed up. It’s not like I get offered roles constantly. I’m not fing Leonardo [DiCaprio]."
Kieran Culkin, now 42, took on the role of Benji and delivered a performance that garnered him the Oscar at the March ceremony. His portrayal as David's outspoken cousin was well-received, and during his acceptance speech, Culkin expressed gratitude to Eisenberg, calling him a genius. "Jesse Eisenberg, thank you for this movie. You are a genius," he said, highlighting the creative collaboration that brought the film to life.
The film's narrative is inspired by Eisenberg's own family history, particularly centered around his beloved grandmother Dory, whose house was located near the concentration camps in Poland. This personal connection adds a layer of authenticity to the film, as it explores the complexities of family, heritage, and the lasting impacts of history.
Interestingly, Eisenberg originally considered playing the role of Benji himself. However, he was advised against it by actress Emma Stone, who has a long-standing professional relationship with him. Stone suggested that he should not take on an unhinged character while directing the film, based on her own experiences. "She was just saying not to play an unhinged character while trying to direct a movie, because she had done Poor Things and though she was not the director, she was managing stuff as a producer would while also playing this incredibly otherworldly character," Eisenberg explained.
Stone's influence extended beyond Eisenberg; she also played a crucial role in convincing Culkin not to drop out of the film just weeks before filming began. Culkin had panicked about being away from his children for too long, but Stone's encouragement helped him to stay committed to the project.
As for André, his career continues to flourish. He is best known for his work as a stand-up comedian and as the host of The Eric André Show, for which he won an Emmy in 2024. His versatility has allowed him to appear in various popular shows, including Curb Your Enthusiasm, Man Seeking Woman, and Abbott Elementary. He has also lent his voice to characters in Disney's remake of The Lion King, Netflix's Disenchantment, and the animated film The Mitchells vs. The Machines.
Despite his regrets about A Real Pain, André remains a prominent figure in the entertainment industry, showcasing his unique style and comedic flair. The film is currently available to stream on Disney+, allowing audiences to experience the poignant story of family and heritage that has resonated with many.
With its blend of humor and serious themes, A Real Pain serves as a reminder of the importance of family connections and the impact of history on personal identity. As both André and Culkin navigate their careers, their experiences with this film highlight the unpredictable nature of the entertainment world and the choices that shape their paths.
