Drew Barrymore, the beloved star of 50 First Dates, is making waves with her uniquely intimate interviewing style on her daytime talk show. Recently, she opened up about the mixed reactions she's received concerning her tendency to incorporate physical touch during interviews. Barrymore’s approach stems from her belief in the power of physical connection, even as she acknowledges the reservations some viewers have expressed.
During her Tuesday conversation with Wicked star Cynthia Erivo, the topic of touchy-feely interactions emerged. Barrymore noted the frequent warnings she receives from staff and friends alike, stating, "People have to warn me. They're like, 'Back off a little bit.'" This candid insight sheds light on her struggles with boundaries during interviews, especially when her natural inclination is to connect physically with guests.
Barrymore’s discussion with Erivo delved deeply not only about their shared affection for holding hands but also the broader societal fears surrounding physical intimacy. Erivo cleverly remarked, "I'm like the welcoming Capricorn that's like, 'I love you. We can touch.'" Together, they explored the notion of non-romantic physical touch, pointing out how it could help break down barriers between people.
With the backdrop of her authority on embracing connection, Barrymore reflected on her relationship status, admitting, "I'm single. I'm not dating anyone. I don't have...that in my life. But I don't know how I would ever hold back from holding hands, hugging, snuggling." This vulnerability resonates with viewers, illustrating her desire to maintain closeness and warmth.
Erivo echoed Barrymore’s sentiments about societal discomfort with touch, stating, "People are too 'afraid' of physical connection because they assume it can 'only be romantic.' How we communicate sometimes is by physical touch." Both women's openness to the conversation has sparked interest: Could more acceptance of physical touch improve human interactions? Barrymore certainly hopes this could become the case, asserting, "If we could all be more comfortable with physical touch, I would like to see this world."
Barrymore's history of physical interactions with guests continues to stir debate. Her on-air encounters can lead to viral moments shared across social media platforms. For example, last year, her interview with Oprah Winfrey drew mixed feedback after the two women held hands and sat close together. Some viewers expressed discomfort, with one comment stating straightforwardly, "Drew doesn't have any personal space and I'm uncomfortable." Such reactions place her at the intersection of intimacy and personal boundaries, raising questions about the societal norms surrounding physicality.
An incident involving Martha Stewart highlighted these concerns even more starkly. On her show last month, Stewart jokingly pushed Barrymore away after perceiving the closeness as too much and said, "You're the wrong gender." This lighthearted exchange exemplifies how perceptions of Barrymore's touchiness often vary depending on the guests and their boundaries.
While conducting interviews, Barrymore is aware of being labeled "too touchy". She shared her mixed feelings about it when speaking with Dax Shepard back in September, saying, "I'm horrified when I hear [that]. And yet I can't stop." This demonstrates her inner conflict between her innate need to connect and the discomfort it may generate for others. Shepard added his perspective by noting the importance of her size, quipping, "If you were my size manhandling everyone, it might be a little different." It’s a humorous yet poignant reminder of how societal expectations about gender and physicality can influence perceptions of behavior.
Martha Stewart’s remarks, which were intended to be playful, highlight the delicate balance between comfort and discomfort with physical touch in public spaces. Barrymore’s approach invites her guests—and viewers—into what she sees as open-hearted interactions. The very structure of her show may encourage others to question their own comfort levels with physical expressions of warmth.
Barrymore's interviews reveal her personal mission to create safe spaces where intimacy is valued, even amid criticism. The actress and host isn’t afraid to challenge societal opinions on physical touch, particularly its ambiguity as being perceived solely as romantic. Instead, she champions the potential for variety—something reflected through her heartfelt interactions and spirited discussions on her show.
With her unique interviewing style at the forefront of public discourse, it seems likely Barrymore will continue to navigate this passion for connection, even if it invites scrutiny along the way. Viewers remain enchanted by her willingness to step outside conventional comfort zones, perhaps nudging society closer toward broader acceptance of affectionate touch.
