Dick Van Dyke and his wife Arlene Silver are proving that love knows no age limits as they celebrate 13 years of marriage amidst their 46-year age gap. At 99 years old, Van Dyke continues to defy critics who suggested their relationship wouldn’t last, sharing their story during a recent interview with People magazine.
The couple first met in 2006 at the Screen Actors Guild Awards, where Silver was working as a makeup artist. Van Dyke recalls the moment vividly, admitting he was initially too scared to approach her. “I never said hello to a strange girl in my life,” he confessed. “But I was at a show backstage, and she walked by, and for some reason, I just jumped up and said, ‘Hi, I’m Dick.’ There’s something about her that got me, and I was right.”
Despite the significant age difference, the couple tied the knot in 2012, with Van Dyke stating, “We get along so well. Everybody said it wouldn’t work.” Silver echoed his sentiments, noting, “It’s eerie how well it works. People the same age don’t last.” Their relationship has flourished over the years, with both partners expressing deep admiration for one another.
Reflecting on their bond, Silver, who is now 53, said, “We just care about each other so much. He’s made me feel like I can do anything.” The couple enjoys low-key date nights at their Malibu home, which they cherish despite having faced challenges, such as their house being hit by the Franklin fire. “We love being home. We love Malibu, and it’s our favorite place,” Silver shared.
Van Dyke has four children from his first marriage to Margie Willett, and he acknowledges the challenges that come with their age gap. However, he believes they have found a way to make it work. “I sometimes forget that we’re doing a great experiment here — 46 years difference,” he said, emphasizing the importance of understanding and adapting to each other’s needs.
In a 2022 interview, Van Dyke expressed his initial concerns about public perception regarding their relationship. “I thought there would be an outcry about a gold digger marrying an old man,” he remarked, but to his surprise, the public has largely embraced their love. “But no one ever took that attitude,” he added.
Van Dyke’s positive outlook on life and commitment to staying active have contributed to his longevity. He continues to exercise regularly, going to the gym three times a week, and credits his stamina to “good genes and not getting hit by a bus.” He encourages others to stay active, stating, “Keep moving is the main thing.”
His advice on aging is encapsulated in his 2015 book, "Keep Moving and Other Tips and Truths About Aging," where he emphasizes the importance of physical activity. “Do not start going down the stairs sideways,” he cautioned, explaining that while it may feel easier on the knees, it can lead to serious injuries.
Van Dyke’s vibrant spirit is infectious, and he believes everyone should embrace joy through singing and dancing. “Everybody should dance,” he said. “And everybody should sing. People say, ‘Well, I can’t sing.’ Everybody can sing. That you do it badly is no reason not to sing.” With his young wife by his side, he enjoys frequent musical moments at home, often engaging in duets.
As they navigate their unique relationship, both Van Dyke and Silver appreciate the joy and positivity they bring into each other’s lives. Silver describes her husband as “the most perfect human being,” highlighting his genuine nature and ability to spread happiness. “He’s just like a happy pill,” she said, capturing the essence of their partnership.
Looking back on his life, Van Dyke admits to having some regrets, particularly regarding his health choices in his younger years. “I would not have smoked or drunk anything,” he reflected, acknowledging the toll it has taken on his body. Nevertheless, he remains focused on the present, enjoying life with Silver and sharing their love story with the world.
As they continue to inspire others with their love, Van Dyke and Silver serve as a testament to the idea that age truly is just a number. Their relationship, built on mutual respect and affection, challenges societal norms and showcases that love can flourish despite any obstacles.
In a world where age gaps in relationships often draw skepticism, the Van Dyke-Silver union stands out as a beacon of hope and joy. Their story encourages others to embrace love in all its forms, proving that true companionship knows no bounds.
