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24 February 2025

Dani Martín Reflects On Loss And Life Changes

The singer discusses his sister's death, mental health advocacy, and readiness for fatherhood.

Dani Martín has opened up about some of the most significant events of his life during recent interviews, discussing the impact of personal tragedy and mental health issues as he navigates his public persona.

Reflecting on the death of his sister Míriam, which occurred unexpectedly and at the young age of 36, Martín shared how this experience was a "terrifying slap" to his life. Speaking candidly with Jordi Évole on the program "Lo de Évole," he explained how this loss forced him to take on new responsibilities within his family, saying, "I stopped being the immature kid I was to become a mature man because my sister had gone, and my parents needed me to support them so they wouldn't sink down.”

The grief was palpable, especially as he described the night he received the devastating news: "I was sleeping, had my phone charging in another room. When I went to check it, I found 75 missed calls from my mother." This moment became a turning point for him. "It was tough to even think about celebrating Christmas during this time; we just didn't feel like it," he admitted, underlining how the family struggled to cope with their loss. After 15 years, he has come to terms with the tragedy and now speaks about Míriam with calmness: "Now I do talk about her, and I like it. I'm able to discuss everything much more peacefully, thanks to the time that's passed."

Another candid moment during the interview involved Martín's mental health. Following his announcement to cancel his tour due to mental health struggles, he received support from renowned Spanish singer Joan Manuel Serrat, who called him to check on him. Martín noted with humor, "He said: 'Kid, what's happened?' I told him, 'Nothing, I've opened up and been sent to the psychiatric hospital.'" Serrat advised him, "You need to share less," to which Martín responded, "I don’t know how to share less; I believe it's beautiful to talk about these things." He emphasized the importance of discussing mental health openly, remarking, "It's part of being normal, not someone who has a problem. What's not normal is for children to work at 14."

Martín, who gained fame as the frontman of 'El Canto del Loco,' reflected on how he matured significantly through grief and personal challenges. He noted, "I mature with the death of my sister, it shakes me and places me in the role of being attentive to my family." He acknowledges the pressure of being constantly under the public eye; yet, he has also found solace and purpose by sharing his experiences.

With regard to his past relationships, he was discreet yet candid about his feelings for other notable figures, particularly Amaia Montero. He expressed, "I love Amaia so much; our families have such beautiful bonds with much affection." He revealed there was once more than friendship, admitting, "Yes, we had something together," without delving too deeply. This hints at the complex layers of relationships he navigated even as he sought to maintain privacy.

Interestingly, Martín reflected on the challenges of fame, describing success as akin to "a very dangerous drug"—he observed, "It feels good to be applauded, but when applause diminishes, you look for your fix elsewhere." He was resolute, stating, "I have never been addicted to drugs, though I flirted with them at times to get attention from my father. If I had gotten involved with cocaine, I’d probably be dead right now. The fear has saved my life."

Martín also shared his thoughts on becoming a father, indicating he feels ready for this next chapter of his life. He stated, "It's the moment; I'm prepared to experience fatherhood because it's the only thing left for me to achieve." He playfully mentioned possible names for future children during the interview, punctuating the conversation with folksy anecdotes, stating, "For the boy, no. We have the girl in mind. Wait... did I just say we have?"

The singer’s transparency extends to his musical work, often reflecting his life experiences and emotions. Tracks like "Mi Lamento" and "Cómo me gustaría contarte" serve as homages to Míriam, imbuing his artistry with personal grief and resilience. Despite the public scrutiny surrounding his romantic life—past relationships with actresses like Patricia Conde and Blanca Suárez—Martín has remained firmly committed to his craft, focusing his energies on creating music infused with the wisdom he has gained over the years.

While Dani Martín has experienced significant peaks and valleys throughout his career, his ability to articulate his struggles with maturity, faithfully narrate his past relationships, and openly discuss mental health establishes him not only as an artist but as an advocate for authenticity and introspection within the Spanish music scene. His recent interviews highlight not just his evolution as an artist but also his steadfast commitment to personal growth and vulnerability.