The Christelijke Gereformeerde Kerken (CGK) are facing turbulent times as they grapple with significant internal divisions over the role of women within the church. Emotional discussions held during the recent synod meetings on January 31, 2025, have brought issues to a head, indicating the impending threat of schism and deepening unrest among members.
During the synod, ds. P.D.J. Buijs poignantly remarked, "The house of the CGK stands on fire. It appears we are unable to extinguish this fire." Buijs, overwhelmed by emotions, reflected on the church's struggles and the need to save what can still be salvaged, highlighting the gravity of the situation and the urgency to address the growing divisions.
The divisions largely stem from the church's longstanding resistance to including women as church leaders. Despite the CGK's affirmations against the ordination of women for many years, approximately 30 of its 181 local congregations have defied this ban and appointed female church leaders. This breach has exacerbated tensions, leading to significant disagreement about the proposed interim-classes aimed at managing these factions.
Members of the synod discussed the idea of establishing interim-classes for local churches opposing women clergy, but these discussions took a turn when ds. F.W. van der Rhee announced the proposal's withdrawal, stating, "We are heartbroken to admit we have been unable to untangle this Gordian knot within our church life." This symbolic portrayal encapsulated the despair many felt as the reality of renewed division loomed larger.
Buijs, emphasizing the need for introspection, declared, "We must recognize with shame, guilt, and sorrow we are no longer able to move forward together." His statements have echoed the sentiments expressed by various church leaders who have long noted the growing rift among congregational members.
The issues at the CGK highlight not only doctrinal discrepancies but deep emotional distress among its membership. Ds. R.G. den Hertog, expressing his dissatisfaction with the synod's handling of women and leadership discussions, stated, "Wrong is making its way through our churches... I cannot participate constructively anymore." His resignation was perceived as emblematic of how many feel their voices are being sidelined.
Notably, ds. Florimco van der Rhee articulated the history of these divisions, referencing previous failed attempts to reconcile differences stating, "A rupture has long presence beneath the surface and is now fully manifest." This captured the essence of the frustrations faced by numerous members as they addressed the failures of their governance structure.
The church will continue to meet, with discussions scheduled for March 25 to March 28, 2025, as they seek effective solutions. With renewed calls for guidance and prayers, members acknowledge the perilous state of their church and ask for divine help to navigate these turbulent waters.
The upcoming meetings will be decisive as the church grapples with ways to maintain cohesion amid seemingly irreconcilable differences over women's roles. Some members believe the way forward lies not only within the confines of their traditional governance but also depends on greater leadership from within communities—a sentiment echoed by ds. A. van der Zwan who urged for tolerant, honest discussions.
The pressure continues to mount, with sentiments circulating, "What is the future of our church?" as the deep divides challenge the CGK's ability to formulate any consensus on these pivotal issues. The outcome will prove significant, not just for the immediate community but also for the legacy of the CGK moving forward. One synod member reflected poignantly, "We are all suffering from the pain of this divide. Let us pray we can heal and find unity once again."