Carina Lau, a beloved television host, has recently opened up about the pressures her son faces as a 'second-generation star' and expressed her gratitude for her biological father, who has stepped into the role of a grandfather in her son's life. In a heartfelt interview on Hong Kong Radio Television's 'Old Time Footprints,' coinciding with Mother's Day, Lau discussed her experiences as a mother and her relationship with her father.
Known for her friendly and natural demeanor, Carina Lau has seen a significant rise in her popularity due to her hosting duties on the singing competition 'Midlife, Good Voice 3.' During her interview, she reflected on the challenges her eight-year-old son, affectionately nicknamed 'BBQ,' faces in light of her celebrity status. "This year, during BBQ's birthday in 2025, a teacher told me that some classmates were making fun of his mother's accent and singing off-key, but he never mentioned it to me. I felt like crying when I heard that, and I couldn't help but reflect on whether my identity as a second-generation star has become a burden for him, even making him more mature than children of the same age," she shared.
Lau revealed that this incident made her feel guilty and worried about the impact of her fame on her son. The day after learning about the teasing, she calmly spoke with BBQ, who simply replied, "They are so bad." Lau took the opportunity to guide him, saying, "It's okay, you can talk to them more and tell grandma to work harder. And you don't have to be unhappy, we should thank them for all the criticisms." This exchange highlights Lau's desire to instill resilience and gratitude in her son despite the challenges they face.
As the final of 'Midlife, Good Voice 3' approaches, scheduled for Mother's Day night, May 11, 2025, Lau has invited BBQ to be her little assistant during the event. He will help her manage her water bottle throughout the evening, allowing them to share the special day together. Lau has taken pride in managing all her styling for the show since its premiere, showcasing her hands-on approach to her work.
When asked about her outfit for the grand finale, which will take place at the Kai Tak Cruise Terminal, Lau humorously remarked, "I have hired a young person to help me manage my outfits. However, she has never given me a complete outfit; each time it's like giving me garments with little fabric like a handkerchief, and I am very much looking forward to it myself." This light-hearted comment reflects her upbeat personality and anticipation for the event.
Lau, who grew up in a single-parent family, has long been the subject of speculation regarding her biological father’s identity. For years, it was rumored that her father was the late veteran actor Cheung Ying-choi, but she has clarified that her biological father is someone else. In her interview, she expressed her feelings about recognizing her father, stating, "Although my dad didn't take on any responsibility during my upbringing, he made up for the role of grandfather to BBQ and came to the hospital to visit before BBQ was born. Ten years ago, he took the initiative to contact me, and I felt very strange when we first met. I always thought that my appearance was more like my mother, but it turns out that the dimples are inherited from him."
Despite the complexities of her family dynamics, Lau has chosen to speak openly about her father to clarify her family history. She noted, "Until after both of them passed away, the outside world was still criticizing me for being unfilial and ignoring his stay in the elderly home, but I don't need to explain to the outside world what I have done." Her decision to reveal her father's identity stems from a desire to ensure that her personal information is accurately represented, especially in the event of her passing.
As a champion of a new talent singing competition, Lau empathizes with the contestants' feelings, but she refrains from comparing herself to them. She explained, "The New Talent competition that year was a concentrated arrangement, completed in one night, but they have to persevere for a full nine months of competition." This acknowledgment of the contestants' dedication reflects her understanding of the challenges they face in the competitive world of entertainment.
In conclusion, Carina Lau's candid reflections on motherhood, her relationship with her biological father, and the pressures of fame provide a glimpse into the life of a public figure navigating personal challenges while supporting her family. Her commitment to fostering resilience in her son amidst the scrutiny of celebrity culture serves as an inspiring reminder of the strength of familial bonds.
