Blake Shelton is embracing his role as stepfather to Gwen Stefani's three sons, Kingston, Zuma, and Apollo, creating lasting family memories filled with joy and connection. While Shelton, the country music star, may not have any children of his own, he has seamlessly taken on the role of stepdad since marrying the pop sensation, Stefani, in 2021. According to sources close to the couple, Shelton's relationship with the boys has evolved beautifully since they first met on the set of NBC's The Voice back in 2014.
"When Blake got together with Gwen, he got an instant family," one insider shared, emphasizing the unique and fulfilling experience Shelton has had as part of their newly blended family. Many men might feel daunted by the challenge of stepping up as stepdad, but Shelton has found immense joy and purpose in this role. The source remarked, "A lot of guys would have been intimidated, but being a stepdad has fulfilled Blake in ways he never thought possible." This sentiment was echoed by Gwen Stefani, who delights in the strong bond her sons have formed with their stepdad.
Throughout their family life, Shelton is consistently creating memorable experiences for his stepchildren. "Blake has a very close bond with all the boys," revealed another source from Us Weekly, noting how they spend much of their free time together. Whether it’s fishing, playing country music, or exploring the vast expanses of the ranch, Shelton loves sharing these moments with Kingston, 18, Zuma, 16, and Apollo, 10. "He loves taking them out to farm on the ranch with him," the insider explained. It brings Stefani immense joy to witness her children's close relationship with Shelton. She feels it enriches their childhood, offering them experiences she cherishes.
Stefani, who shares her children with ex-husband Gavin Rossdale, appreciates the safe haven Shelton has provided for her family. One source highlighted, "Gwen loves the sweet bond Blake shares with them. It makes her heart want to explode." This warmth emanates from the family's interactions, with Shelton fully embracing his role as their stepfather and partner to Stefani.
Reflecting on his decade-long relationship with Stefani, Shelton expressed, "If I could have a repeat of these past 10 years, [that] would be perfect." Celebrations of milestones like Kingston reaching 18 have filled him with disbelief and pride. "Next month, we’ve got an 18-year-old, which it blows my mind," Shelton shared, adding humorously, "But we still have Apollo, so we have another almost 10 years before we can kick him out, so it should be a lot of fun!" Even with all the giggles, he acknowledges becoming a stepdad was not without its lessons.
"Just, you know, reading the room, you’ve really got[to] think, 'I have to take a step back,'" Shelton explained about respecting Rossdale's role as their biological father. He believes it’s important to allow the boys their space and time with their dad, reinforcing the common sight of blended families facing challenges. Despite these dynamics, Shelton remains committed to being present and supportive. His approach suggests the true essence of being a stepdad is found in humility and love.
Supporting Stefani and her sons, Shelton has lovingly taken on the task of introducing them to country music and the rural lifestyle he holds dear. "I get to teach them the country, you know, and I love it. Whether it’s music or literally getting their hands dirty on the ranch, seeing the animals—whatever. I absolutely love being the person who gets to introduce them to these experiences," he stated, showcasing his passion for nurturing the boys.
Beyond step-parenting, Shelton has played a transformative role in Stefani's personal life as well, helping her confront self-image issues she faced over the years. Reflecting on her struggles, Stefani recalled her battle with self-esteem, stating, "I never felt pretty 'til you loved me," which she sings about poignantly in her latest song, "Pretty." Her lyrics convey the heaviness of those feelings: "I always felt pretty, pretty, pretty unlucky." This evolution is anchored deeply within her relationship with Shelton.
Stefani has shared the significance of Shelton’s presence and love during her candid confessions about self-acceptance. "I’m like staring in the mirror... like, 'Am I cute? I can't tell,'" she recalled, reflecting on her earlier years. Their musical collaboration, which produced hit songs like "Happy Anywhere" and "Nobody But You," has served as both love language and therapeutic tool for the couple. These duets capture their shared experiences and bond, showcasing the seamless integration of their lives as partners and parents.
Stefani’s emotional maturity helps her recognize how far she has come with Shelton by her side, moving from feelings of insecurity to embracing her worth. "You looked my eyes and showed me what I couldn’t see," she sings, illustrating the light Shelton has brought to her life. Together, they illuminate the beauty of love and care, fostering connections through shared challenges and happiness.