In the wake of their high-profile divorce, Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez are navigating the complexities of post-marital life, each carving out their own paths in the entertainment industry. As of April 16, 2025, sources reveal that Affleck is embracing his single status while Lopez prepares for a significant concert in Saudi Arabia, marking a new chapter for both stars.
Ben Affleck, who finalized his divorce from Lopez in February 2025, is reportedly enjoying his freedom and casually dating again. Sources close to the actor indicate that he has hooked up with multiple people since his split from Lopez, but he prefers to keep things low-key. According to Us Weekly, Affleck doesn’t “do dates in public” and is “back to living the single bachelor life.” While he enjoys the independence that comes with being single, a source claims that “Ben wants to settle down” eventually, hinting at a desire for a long-term relationship.
Despite the casual nature of his dating life, Affleck has been open to the idea of finding love again. He was even spotted searching for matches on Raya, a dating app for celebrities, although it seems he has since stepped back from that scene. His friends often joke that everyone has someone in mind for him, but Affleck finds it challenging to be tied down at the moment. “He feels relieved to have some independence and is very comfortable with his life right now,” a source revealed.
Meanwhile, Jennifer Lopez is also moving forward after their split. On April 15, she announced via her Instagram Stories that she will be performing in Saudi Arabia on April 19, 2025, during the Grand Prix weekend in Jeddah. This concert will be her first appearance at an F1 event in over a decade, having last headlined the 2014 Singapore Grand Prix. Lopez is set to perform alongside major artists like Party Next Door, Major Lazer, and Usher, promising an unforgettable evening for her fans.
Lopez, who finalized her divorce just four months ago, appears to be keeping busy with various projects. Alongside her concert, she is filming a new project titled Office Romance in Brooklyn and is gearing up for a summer tour. A source close to Lopez noted that both she and Affleck are channeling their heartbreak into their work, stating, "They are both sad that the marriage did not work out. Instead of crying over it, however, they are working their hearts out. They love being busy with solid projects." Lopez has also hinted at a few select summer show dates, expressing her excitement to reconnect with her international fanbase.
However, the two stars' relationship has reportedly changed since their divorce. Although they remain on cordial terms, sources indicate that they are not in frequent contact. “They’re not in contact very often,” one insider shared, while another noted that they maintain a level of communication and can reach out to each other when necessary. Their blended family dynamic remains intact, as Lopez’s children, 17-year-old twins Emme and Max, have developed a bond with Affleck’s three kids: Violet, 19, Fin, 16, and Samuel, 13.
Affleck has also been focusing on his children and his work in the film industry. He is currently engaged in filming a new movie titled Animals in Los Angeles, which began production in April 2025. His recent appearances, including a relaxed outing at CinemaCon to promote The Accountant 2, indicate that he is in a good place. A source revealed, “Ben doesn’t feel as exposed now, and he likes that.” Affleck has been vocal about prioritizing his role as a father, stating, “The most important thing to me was both being a parent and being present.”
In a recent GQ interview, Affleck addressed the reasons behind his and Lopez’s divorce. He dismissed speculation of scandal or intrigue, explaining that their breakup was a simple story of two people trying to navigate their lives. He noted that both he and Lopez have different temperaments when it comes to public life, which may have contributed to their challenges as a couple. Affleck stated, “There’s no scandal, no soap opera, no intrigue. The truth is, when you talk to somebody, ‘Hey, what happened?’ Well, there is no: ‘This is what happened.’”
As for Lopez, she has been reportedly looking for new ways to keep her connection with Affleck alive, despite their divorce. Sources suggest that she is maintaining friendships with people close to Affleck, including his longtime friend Matt Damon, as part of a strategy to stay relevant in Hollywood. This move has been interpreted as an effort to remain in the spotlight, especially after Affleck referred to their breakup as “embarrassing” in his interview. Lopez is said to be “fuming” over his comments and is determined to show that she is thriving post-divorce.
Additionally, Affleck’s relationship with his first ex-wife, Jennifer Garner, has reportedly deepened since his split from Lopez. Although they are not romantically involved, sources indicate that they have grown closer as co-parents. “They are family for life,” one insider stated, emphasizing the trust and familiarity that exists between them. Affleck has been making an effort to be present for his children, often planning his work schedule around their needs. “I’ll be home at 3:45 when my kids get off the bus,” he noted, highlighting his commitment to family life.
As both Affleck and Lopez continue to navigate their respective journeys, it’s clear that they are both focusing on their careers while also prioritizing their roles as parents. With upcoming projects and performances, they are proving that they can thrive individually, even after a high-profile marriage.
