Across Australia, more women over the age of 60 are embarking on solo travels, redefining retirement norms and embracing the freedom of the open road. These women, often referred to as ‘grey nomads,’ are seeking adventure, personal growth, and new experiences, showcasing resilience and independence.
Take Gaye, for example. At 63, Gaye made the bold decision to travel full-time after her mother's death and realizing life was too short to wait for the ‘right time.’ "I just thought five years seemed like the right amount of time," she shared with Yahoo News Australia. She rented out her home, placed her belongings in storage, and set off on her modified campervan truck. Free camping and traveling solo might not be the norm for many of her age, but Gaye thrives on it; her story is both inspiration and adventure.
Gaye's travels have opened new horizons, enabling her to embrace skills she never imagined she would learn, such as cutting wood after someone taught her how to use a chainsaw. Her experiences are shared through her blog, ‘Nana on the Road’, which has gathered over 9,000 followers. “I decided from the very beginning I would blog it because it gives me the incentive to keep going,” she mentioned enthusiastically. The sense of community she's found among fellow travelers has been invaluable. "It's a great community... One lady taught me how to use a chainsaw… I’d never used one before and now I own one,” Gaye proudly noted.
Her story isn't unique. It's part of a growing trend. Robyn Drayton, 63, embarked on her own adventure seven years ago, driven by the urge to explore Australia after years of overseas travel. She left her home and, with nothing but determination, traveled for almost six years with her Shetland sheepdog, Porto. "Something came over me. I just burst out crying. It was time to go," Drayton recalled. With her travels guided by Australian Bush Pubs, she has visited remote areas, marking off locations with signatures from local publicans.
According to Margaret Yates, PhD candidate at the University of Technology Sydney, these women are challenging traditional views of ageing. Yates's research, which includes interviews with solo female travelers, found they seek freedom, independence, and self-discovery. “They love going to new places, doing new things and meeting new people,” Yates said, highlighting their genuine awe of Australia’s diverse natural beauty.
The rise of caravanning ties back to practical decisions many women face today. Increasing financial independence and changing priorities, especially after the Covid pandemic, have aided this desire for adventure. Post-pandemic introspection led many to value meaningful experiences over material possessions, contributing to the spike in caravan registrations, which increased by 4.2% during 2021.
The community-based aspect of traveling solo has become significant for these women. Online social media groups dedicated to solo female travelers provide support and share tips, allowing connections and friendships to blossom at various campsites. Women share experiences and resources, crafting their own informal networks of support, especially invaluable when challenges arise.
But it’s not all smooth sailing for these adventurers. Vehicle breakdowns or unexpected mishaps can pose serious challenges. Drayton shared how she had to assert herself when confronted by skepticism from mechanics based on stereotypes about older travelers. “It’s important to know your vehicle and be able to stand up for yourself," she stated, emphasizing the importance of being self-sufficient.
Vivian, another traveler who preferred not to use her real name, also shared her insights; her nine years on the road underscored personal resilience. “If I don’t deal with it, I’m stuck here. I’ve learned about my weak points and my strong points as well,” she noted, highlighting how solo travel teaches valuable life lessons.
At the heart of these journeys is personal reflection. For Drayton, travel has been transformative. Between adventures, she's found time for introspection, contemplating family and her aspirations within her own life. She's currently settled for the moment but is eager to hit the road again. “I think women are more adventurous and want to get out and enjoy themselves later in their lives,” she reflected.
Overall, the stories of Gaye, Drayton, and more women showcase the dynamic shift among older Australians embracing solo travel, shattering stereotypes and enriching their lives along the way. With every mile driven, they are not only discovering Australia but redefining what it means to grow older.