Amanda Balk, known for her time on the reality show De Gouden Kooi, now lives under constant security after enduring the trauma of a violent armed robbery. The incident, which occurred early one morning in 2021, left her feeling vulnerable and significantly altered her approach to life.
Sharing her story during the premiere of the new Prime Video show Open Casa, Amanda reflected on the harrowing experience when two men posing as delivery personnel invaded her home. "I was at home with my daughter, and when I opened the door to retrieve the package, they attacked me," she recalled, visibly shaken by the memory. "They kicked me repeatedly and then pressed a gun to my head."
Despite the terror of the situation, Amanda's first instinct was to protect her daughter, Vegas. "I thought, if you go upstairs to my child, I will do anything to stop you, even if it costs me my life." Fortunately, her daughter managed to hide inside a closet, evading the intruders' grasp. "I’m so grateful she wasn’t harmed," she said, still processing the emotional weight of the event.
The aftermath of the robbery forced Amanda to reassess her life and her place within the public eye. "After everything, I took the decision to disappear from the spotlight. I wanted to be invisible for a time," Amanda said. Since then, she has ensured her safety by employing round-the-clock security measures. "I’ve taken every precaution possible to feel safe," she stated, underscoring the lasting impact of the trauma on her mental health.
Even with security, Amanda admits, anxiety looms large. "I still startle at the smallest noises, and my daughter notices it. If I react, she reacts, too," Amanda explained, highlighting the complex emotional toll on her family. This heightened state of vigilance is compounded by the challenges of life as a single mother. Her relationship with her daughter has grown even more significant post-trauma.
Meanwhile, Amanda’s personal life has seen some revitalization. She has found love with Ed Hollander, who has provided her with emotional support during this difficult time. "I have certainly found true love with Ed. He is wonderful and he stands by me at every turn," she expressed, emphasizing the importance of having someone by her side. Recently, Ed even surprised her with a luxurious car, showcasing his affection and commitment.
Although the incident reshaped her life, Amanda's aspirations for Vegas remain steadfast. While she grapples with the absence of her daughter’s father, Nick van de Wall, known to many as Afrojack, she still hopes for reconciliation. “I would love for her to have her father back in her life, as every child deserves both parents,” she articulated, reflecting on the complexity of familial relationships.
Despite her retreat from public life, the compelling stories shared by Amanda resonate with many, especially as she continues to navigate the trauma of her past. Her sister, Danielle Balk, has chosen to embrace the adventure of being on reality television, appearing on Echte Meisjes in de Jungle. Amanda, meanwhile, opts for stability and safety, prioritizing her family and personal well-being.
Amanda's experience is neither unique nor uncommon; many live with the lasting effects of violence and fear. Her decision to prioritize security and mental health serves as inspiration for others who may be struggling with similar traumas. "I’ve made my peace with the past, but the fear still lingers," Amanda stated. "Living with constant security is my new reality, but I refuse to let fear define me. My focus will always be on my daughter and finding joy where possible."
While Open Casa explores the lives of several public figures, Amanda’s story stands out as one of resilience. It serves as a powerful reminder of how one event can redefine life, not just for the victim but also for the family impacted by the trauma. Amanda hopes her story can encourage others and raise awareness about the effects of crime on personal lives. Open Casa premiered on February 28, 2025, marking Amanda’s return to the public stage, albeit on her own terms.