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07 January 2026

Eamonn Holmes Reflects On Regret And Resilience After Ruth Langsford Split

The former TV couple take separate paths after their 2024 divorce, with Holmes confronting health battles and Langsford embracing independence and new beginnings.

It’s been nearly two years since Eamonn Holmes and Ruth Langsford—once the beloved duo of British daytime television—announced the end of their 14-year marriage. Their split, which came as a surprise to fans in May 2024, has since unfolded into two very different journeys for the pair, marked by reflection, personal growth, and significant health challenges.

Holmes and Langsford, who first began dating in 1996 and share a 23-year-old son, became household names as co-hosts of This Morning from 2005 to 2021. Their on-screen chemistry and easy banter captured viewers for years, making the news of their separation all the more unexpected. According to The Mirror, the couple released a joint statement confirming their decision to part ways, ending a partnership that had become a staple of British television.

In the time since their breakup, Eamonn Holmes, now 66, has been candid about his regrets and the toll his career and health have taken on his personal life. In a January 2026 interview with Mind Jump magazine, Holmes was asked what he would change if he could go back and do things differently. He replied, “I would try to find a better balance between my career and my personal life.” The magazine noted that when pressed about his “biggest regret,” Holmes intentionally left the question unanswered—a silence that speaks volumes about the complexity of his feelings.

Holmes’s reflections come at a time of considerable physical adversity. As reported by Belfast Live and The Sun, he has battled chronic leg, hip, and back pain for years, undergoing a double hip replacement in 2016 at age 55. The surgery, which he described as “life-changing,” was meant to ease pain that left him unable to drive or perform even basic activities. Yet by 2021, Holmes’s pain returned, this time due to three slipped discs in his back. The situation worsened in 2022 when spinal problems affected his bowel and bladder, leading to hospitalization and further surgery in September of that year. While the procedure “tidied things up,” according to Holmes, it also introduced new mobility issues and resulted in several falls.

By 2025, Holmes told Good Morning Britain that he had been “basically disabled for a year and a half or so,” requiring carers for even the simplest tasks. “It’s humiliating and humbling—but thank goodness that carers are available,” he said. Despite these challenges, Holmes has expressed gratitude for those who have stood by him and remains hopeful about the future, even exploring the possibility of new stem cell treatments to improve his mobility.

Amid these health struggles, Holmes has found companionship with relationship counsellor Katie Alexander. Their relationship began after his separation from Langsford, marking a new chapter in his life. According to The Independent, Holmes attended the TRIC Awards with Alexander, where he publicly wished Ruth “all the best” over the Christmas holiday—a gesture that suggests a sense of closure and goodwill despite their difficult split.

Ruth Langsford, meanwhile, has taken a markedly different approach to life after divorce. At 65, she remains single but maintains a “never say never” attitude toward future relationships and marriage. In a candid interview with Woman&Home in November 2025, Langsford shared, “I haven’t been put off having a relationship. I haven’t even been put off marriage, but I’m definitely not actively looking, and part of that is because I’ve realised I’m actually quite good on my own.” She described herself as independent and strong, noting that it took her some time to reach this realization. “That chapter now feels quite exciting. It’s not as scary as I thought,” she reflected, adding that the fear she once felt about the future has dissipated.

Langsford credits a close circle of female friends for helping her adjust to single life and says she has found particular value in counselling since her separation from Holmes. “I started counselling when Eamonn and I separated, and I’m still having it. It is very powerful and very useful. It gives me tools to deal with things,” she explained to Woman&Home. She praised her counsellor’s neutral approach: “She just listens and says, ‘Have you thought about this?’ or ‘Why did you feel like that?’ I think I know myself very well, so it has just been calming.”

Langsford’s openness about therapy and support systems offers a glimpse into how she has navigated the emotional aftermath of the split. She emphasized the importance of her girlfriends, telling The Mirror that they made her feel “completely supported” as she embraced her new independence. Her story stands in contrast to Holmes’s more public grappling with regret and health setbacks, highlighting the different ways individuals cope with major life changes.

While both have faced their own challenges, the tone between Holmes and Langsford remains amicable. Holmes has maintained a conciliatory stance, wishing Langsford well and focusing on his recovery and new relationship. Langsford, for her part, has not ruled out the possibility of love in the future but is content to enjoy her newfound autonomy. “I am independent and quite strong,” she said, “and I don’t know what lies ahead, but that chapter now feels quite exciting.”

As the former couple moves forward, their story resonates with many who have faced similar crossroads—balancing career ambitions, personal relationships, and health. Holmes’s admission that he would seek a better work-life balance if given another chance is a sentiment that rings true for countless people juggling the demands of modern life. Langsford’s embrace of independence and support networks is equally relatable, offering hope to those navigating the aftermath of a long-term partnership.

Looking ahead, both Holmes and Langsford appear poised to write new chapters in their lives, shaped by the lessons, regrets, and resilience gained from their years together and apart. Their journeys—marked by honesty, struggle, and a willingness to adapt—offer a poignant reminder that even after the end of a significant relationship, growth and possibility remain within reach.