Allison Holker, a familiar face to fans of So You Think You Can Dance and Dancing With the Stars, is stepping into a new season of her life. On February 12, 2026, Holker announced her engagement to tech executive Adam Edmunds, marking a significant milestone nearly three years after the tragic loss of her husband, Stephen "tWitch" Boss. The news, shared across her social media platforms, was met with an outpouring of support from friends, family, and admirers who have followed Holker's journey through grief, healing, and rediscovery of love.
The proposal itself was as heartfelt as it was meticulously planned. According to Us Weekly and confirmed by Holker herself on Instagram, Edmunds orchestrated a surprise party for Holker’s 38th birthday on February 6, 2026. But birthday festivities were just the beginning. As the evening unfolded, Edmunds surprised both Holker and their guests by transforming the celebration into a proposal party. He got down on one knee on a bed of red rose petals, surrounded by close friends and family. The atmosphere was further elevated by a live performance from musician Clinton Kane, who serenaded the couple with their favorite song, "I Guess I'm in Love." Holker later described the experience as "the most romantic night of my life."
Holker’s announcement was accompanied by a series of photos from the proposal, capturing the joy and intimacy of the moment. She wore a striking satin red dress, while Edmunds opted for a classic black suit. In her Instagram caption, Holker wrote, "We’re ENGAGED! It was the most romantic night of my life! I am so in love with you Adam." She continued, "Baby, I am forever grateful for you and the impact you have had in my life and my kids' lives. I am a better person because of you. You helped me find me again and showed me how to love. Every morning I wake up I feel safe knowing you are my person at my side. You and your kids coming into our lives has been the biggest blessing."
The love story between Holker and Edmunds has unfolded gradually in the public eye. After the devastating loss of Stephen Boss, who died by suicide in December 2022, Holker kept her personal life relatively private. It wasn’t until August 2024 that she hinted at a new romance, sharing an Instagram photo of her shadow holding hands with the shadow of a mystery man. The following month, the couple made their official debut at New York Fashion Week, attending the Alice + Olivia by Stacey Bendet Spring 2025 collection show in New York City. As reported by Us Weekly, Holker expressed in September 2024, "I actually feel like I found such a great love and support system from someone. I never knew that I could have this again." She added, "We understand each other and we’re so supportive of each other. He’s just someone that stepped into my life, and it’s been so beautiful and lovely."
Holker’s children—Weslie, now 17, Maddox, 9, and Zaia, 5—have also been central to her journey. She has often spoken about the importance of family, especially in the wake of Boss’s passing. Holker and Boss, who married in 2013, built a life together that revolved around dance, creativity, and shared experiences. Boss, beloved for his role as DJ on The Ellen DeGeneres Show, was known for his infectious joy and dedication to his family. To honor his memory, Holker has shared montages of their life together, including dance videos and family milestones. On the third anniversary of his death in December 2025, Holker posted a heartfelt tribute: "We honor you and cherish all of our beautiful memories with you. We loved laughing, creating and dancing. We will love you forever."
In the years since Boss’s death, Holker has worked to create new memories with her children while keeping his legacy alive. Family moments have included movie premieres—such as Spider-Man: Across the Spider-Verse in May 2023—holiday celebrations, and even a return to the dance floor with daughter Weslie in a TikTok video. Through it all, Holker has emphasized gratitude, resilience, and the enduring power of love. As she wrote on Thanksgiving 2022, "Thankful for family. Thankful for health. Thankful for love. Thankful for life."
The relationship with Edmunds has brought new light into Holker’s life. Their romance has been marked by moments both public and private, from courtside basketball games to family outings at Disneyland for their first Christmas together in December 2024. The couple’s blended family, including Edmunds’s children, has embraced new traditions—dressing up in Toy Story-themed costumes for Halloween and supporting each other’s professional endeavors. In November 2024, Holker brought Edmunds to a taping of Dancing With the Stars, expressing her appreciation: "I couldn’t be more happy and excited for this next chapter." Edmunds, for his part, joked in the comments, "So we should probably just get this out of the way now…I totally can’t dance!"
Holker’s openness about her journey has resonated with many who have experienced loss and the search for hope. In her engagement announcement, she made a vow to her future husband: "Adam, I will always support you, hold you and love you! You are my everything Adam." The couple’s story is one of resilience, blending the memories of the past with the promise of the future. As Holker continues to honor Boss’s legacy, she is also embracing a new chapter defined by gratitude, growth, and a renewed sense of joy.
With wedding plans ahead, Holker and Edmunds are looking forward to building a life together, surrounded by their children and loved ones. Their journey serves as a testament to the healing power of love and the importance of community in times of both sorrow and celebration.
For Holker, the next dance is just beginning—and this time, she’s not stepping alone.